I was wondering about you this weekend. I hate to hear that you are still getting your chain yanked.
You know in your gut that he isn't being honest, and you still attempt to convince yourself that you are wrong. He continues to lie and manipulate.
Did you see a lawyer? Did you find out your rights? Have you squirreled any just in case funds away?
I think it's time to hefty bag his belongings, and put them outside the front door, and add a lock, so he can't get in. Until he is forced he will not change, if he chooses not to change, was he worth having anyway?
You need to get strong for you. He will continue to do this until you do.
My heart hurts for you, but sister it's time to dig deep into the back of your closet, and dust off the bitch boots. You can do this.