Hi Folks, looking for your opinions on a situation that is not going away anytime soon it seems!
My partner had a ons with an ex 'friend' & she has never owned up to it & became venomous in the aftermath. I feel I have moved on as in thinking I needed 'her' to at least own her part.....it just won't happen!
What I am struggling with is that she is still driving near my home with the excuse that she drops her child off that way to school. There are many other roads for her to go down without cutting down mine.
We all know that if there was any conscience this would not be happening & I would like to think that I was strong enough to not let it bother me, but it does!
So I have drafted a letter, Husband to be drafted one also (basically took out the digs I added to keep it to the point) and wonder if I should send it?
Husband to be has wanted to talk to her husband if he felt the need ( her Husband has his head in the sand it seems) & will do if she continues to come near our home. It's all just such an effed up situation & easy to resolve if she doesn't keep showing her evil head every morning.
Considering she told me in a text to stay away from them ( after I called her BH to inform him) she also blocked me on Facebook which is a deleted account anyway I don't see the logic of driving where she KNOWS I'm also driving my children to school ( different school but around the corner from my home)
Most of you say to ignore, yes I do...but I see behind my super big sunglasses I just think she is the one breaching her own request!
This is what I have written
To ex friend
It would be appreciated if you stop driving near our home! I have suggested this via text & seems to have gone unnoticed by you.
It shows lack of character & is not asking anything that would inconvienience you by taking a different route ie (M Ave or any other road other than near our home & would be quicker for you also)
Unfortunately there are consequences for poor & inappropriate behaviour, please realise that you are not immune to these! No one is!
You did state in a previous text to me that WE stay out of your life (which WE have by not driving 'intentionally' past or near your Family's home) now please consider your OWN request by staying away!!!
If you choose to ignore this request I will then consider it stalking, obviously in the hopes of seeing my partner or myself!
I would then also assume you take great pleasure out of this situation, which then confirms the likely hood you hold sociopathic personality traits.
I imagine you will sport a fair 'eye roll' moment reading this but that is completely expected from someone with no iota of integrity! I'm sure you would understand/possibly get it(?) had the situation been reversed.
No further factual information need be passed onto your betrayed Husband if you'll kindly respect our request.
No need to reply, your 'actions' will speak volumes!!!
Had to add a few digs, come on