I had a few blow ups early on...but over time I handled it pretty well. For the past 5-6 months my wife has had issues with perimenopause hitting way early. Intimacy and sex life has gone to shit.....she sees her MD....and I was told this and I understand, but my brain doesn't for some reason. She is depressed, quiet.....not engaged. This is pre A behavior in my head....same shit that lead down that road for her. This weekend I lost my shit....I had zero filter.
I don't know what to do.....my brain is telling me to pack my shit and run....even though nothing is going on.....R was going very very well until this stuff started. Weight gain (I support her in every way btw)....mood swings....
This shit cousl not have hit at a worst time (maybe other than the first year post DDay).