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User Topic: SA from DDay to D - Found this amazing blog.
♀ 39532
Member # 39532
Default  Posted: 2:27 AM, September 4th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

This isn't pretty, but it's an amazing read.

BS 35
WS 31
DD, only child
DDay: 06/09/13
End of TT/Full Disclosure 07/08/13

Reconciling. A stronger marriage now.

Psalm 37. It rocks my world. So does 140. Big guy upstairs has got it all figured out.

Posts: 230 | Registered: Jun 2013 | From: Here and there...
♀ 40533
Member # 40533
Default  Posted: 5:11 AM, September 4th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thank you for sharing. I liked this line "I couldn't save or our marriage and had come to the realization that I couldn't save [insert WS]and had no business even trying because you can't save someone who is bound and determined to self destruct. So for the sake of my kids and my sanity, I decided to concentrate on saving myself."

These were very good words for me to read today.

Me: 39 yo BW
Him: 41 yo WH
2 daughters (9, 6); married 16 yrs
DD: 6/2/13 (5 mo EA/PA with coworker)
Divorced 7/17/15

Posts: 50 | Registered: Sep 2013
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Member # 39987
Default  Posted: 7:03 AM, September 4th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Oh Wow! Is all I can say. I can't imagine the horrors that woman endured through the unraveling of her life and her relationship with her WH. I am only just beginning this path and pray that things do not go this badly for my family.
Thank you for sharing her story here.

Me - 40
WH - 42
Married 18 years
kids - 14, 12
DD - May 13, 2013
DD2 - Aug 4, 2013
DD3 - Aug 27, 2013
Status - Legally separated; really wanted R but don't think that is possible anymore

Posts: 103 | Registered: Jul 2013 | From: Southern Indiana
♀ 99
Member # 99
Default  Posted: 8:44 AM, September 4th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

WOW. That's some powerful stuff that brought me back to a somewhat parallel universe. My exH was also SA with prostitutes, and OMG, the girlfriend experience was the hooker that I discovered first.

"Anyone perfect must be lying; anything easy has its cost. Anyone plain can be lovely; anyone loved can be lost." Barenaked Ladies

Posts: 2837 | Registered: Jun 2002 | From: North Carolina
♀ 32211
Member # 32211
Default  Posted: 5:29 PM, September 6th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

It blows me away how someone can hide that for so long. I mean how do people live with themselves and why. Why not just be single and have dirty prostitutes anytime you want...Why drag a wife and kids through it? I just don't understand people. I try not to judge because judge lest ye be judged but really, I don't get it...

BS: 40
WS: 42
Two boys 13/11
Married 15 years
Dday: too Many to remember. 3 significant OW and many "less"'significant OW. Believe WS has bad boundaries and craves the attention.
In R.

Posts: 900 | Registered: May 2011
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