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User Topic: Ariel Castro: Convicted Cleveland kidnapper/rapist found dead in
painpaingoaway
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Default  Posted: 7:33 AM, September 4th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Ariel Castro: Convicted Cleveland kidnapper/rapist found dead in cell

GOOD.

[This message edited by painpaingoaway at 7:34 AM, September 4th (Wednesday)]


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Posts: 7161 | Registered: Jan 2010 | From: Coastal South
Undefinabl3
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Default  Posted: 7:37 AM, September 4th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Yep, pretty much.

I am sure that that is bad to say, but its between him and God now....but chances are he didnt get a ride upstairs.


Me: 31 MH
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TrulyReconciled
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Default  Posted: 8:49 AM, September 4th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

As happy an ending as you can get.


"In a time of deceit, telling the Truth is a revolutionary act."

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hemademesingle
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Default  Posted: 10:02 AM, September 4th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I couldn't be happier for the tax payers of Ohio,

why have to pay for someone so evil's living expenses,

I hope that all those affected by his actions can find peace


Posts: 395 | Registered: Oct 2008 | From: Canada
Undefinabl3
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Default  Posted: 10:56 AM, September 4th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I do feel bad for the girls in this case.

They were imprisioned for 11 years. He will not have to be in prision that long, he is dead.

In some ways, relief that they would never have to face him again would be felt. On the other hand, he's not sitting in jail rotting away. This end is to good for him imo.


Me: 31 MH
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New online find 6/19/14 - shit
Phone Find 11/21/14 - I can't even right now.

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Deeply Scared
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Default  Posted: 11:58 AM, September 4th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

So he was basically in protective custody in a cell all by himself where guards made the rounds every 30 minutes and he was not on suicide watch.

Seems a bit fishy to me.

What did he hang himself with? How did it get in his cell and left un-noticed?

Not that I care he's dead...personally I would have liked to see the general population at the prison have about 1 hour with him. He deserved to suffer and hanging doesn't take nearly long enough to inflict pain and mental anguish...in my opinion.


"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." My Mom:)

My tolerance for stupid shit is getting less and less.


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confused615
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Default  Posted: 12:00 PM, September 4th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I read that he hung himself with his bed sheet.

And that they tried to revive him.

I hope they didn't try too hard.


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Posts: 8070 | Registered: Jan 2011 | From: Indiana
Deeply Scared
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Default  Posted: 12:01 PM, September 4th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thanks Confused...I hadn't seen that about the bed sheet.


"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." My Mom:)

My tolerance for stupid shit is getting less and less.


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circe
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Default  Posted: 12:21 PM, September 4th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

My soul struggles with the feeling of relief for someone's death, but I do feel relief. I hope his victims aren't even more traumatized by this. I don't know what complex feelings they might have and what they might need the most for recovery, so I pray that this doesn't interfere with their healing and that maybe they feel that one dangerous soul has left the world.

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Bigger
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Default  Posted: 12:51 PM, September 4th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Won’t pretend that I shed a tear or mourned his death. ..
But it does raise one question in my mind: What made him chose to die? I hope it was his conscience because – if nothing else – it might indicate a realization and a grasp of the concept that what he did was wrong. At least I hope his victims can see it that way.


"If, therefore, any be unhappy, let him remember that he is unhappy by reason of himself alone." Epictetus

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confused615
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Default  Posted: 1:03 PM, September 4th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Here's the full story.

http://www.cnn.com/2013/09/04/justice/ariel-castro-cleveland-kidnapper-death/index.html?hpt=hp_c2

Im guessing he did it because he is a coward,and facing a lifetime in prison was too much for him. He held those girls for 10 years...he couldn't handle 10 months.

I pray for those girls and their families. I hope today they have peace.


BS(me)42
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4 kids
M: June 2001
D-Day: 8/10/10
Status: Reconciled.

..that feeling you get in your stomach, when you heart's broken. It's like all the butterflies just died.


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Default  Posted: 1:29 PM, September 4th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm sure the girls mostly feel relief.

As just a very small comparison I had a coworker who threatened me physically and about a year after I fired him he killed himself. I know this is terrible but I felt GREAT because I didn't have to look over my shoulder anymore. He was just GONE.

Even though Castro was in prison the irrational side of those girls had to always wonder.... now it is just OVER.


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Together: 18 years now (both MDs)
OW: meh so what 40s PhD
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authenticnow
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Default  Posted: 2:00 PM, September 4th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm almost ashamed to say that I smiled when I saw this on Yahoo this morning.

Good riddance.


Take up your space (and do it well).

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64fleet
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Default  Posted: 2:09 PM, September 4th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Dang, I was hoping he'd get Dahmer'ed.


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JanetS
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Default  Posted: 2:20 PM, September 4th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Now, if only Jodi Arias took notes.

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Default  Posted: 2:24 PM, September 4th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm almost ashamed to say that I smiled when I saw this on Yahoo this morning.

I wouldn't be. I have pretty radical views though, so i won't really go there.

I think that he saved the tax payers a lot of money, those girls a lot of strife, and the prison a lot of grief for him being in there.


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aesir
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Default  Posted: 4:06 PM, September 4th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Last night when I heard I was considering posting "only a thousand years to go".

I read that he hung himself with his bed sheet.
And that they tried to revive him.

I hope they didn't try too hard.

I hope they pounded on him real hard while attempting CPR. I hope they actually revived him and kept going "just to be safe".


Your mileage may vary... in accordance with the prophecy.

Do not back up. Severe tire damage.


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aesir
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Default  Posted: 4:06 PM, September 4th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Last night when I heard I was considering posting "only a thousand years to go".

I read that he hung himself with his bed sheet.
And that they tried to revive him.

I hope they didn't try too hard.

I hope they pounded on him real hard while attempting CPR. I hope they actually revived him and kept going "just to be safe".


Your mileage may vary... in accordance with the prophecy.

Do not back up. Severe tire damage.


Posts: 14924 | Registered: Nov 2007 | From: Winnipeg
Jrazz
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Default  Posted: 4:08 PM, September 4th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Final act of the ultimate coward. Good riddance.


"Welcome the rawness of vulnerability as an opportunity to open." - Pema Chodron

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Default  Posted: 5:29 PM, September 4th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Here is one time when I don't think too many people care that this person is gone. I don't believe even his own children care.

As far as death being too good for him, so would sitting in jail the rest of his years, probably being allowed a TV and other things. There could be no way to REALLY get justice for what he did, so IMO death is best because it will cost the taxpayers less.

Too bad he didn't do it before kidnapping the first girl.


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