Topic: Sensitive Topic... article I saw on C.N.N
Member # 12041
| Posted: 9:15 AM, September 4th (Wednesday), 2013|
I was browsing this morning and saw this article about positive pregnancy tests for sale on Craigslist.
Immediately my mind jumped to a scenario we see often here of the former AP claiming to be pregnant. Sadly, sometimes it turns out to be true. But we often see people worrying and worrying only for the claim to have been another lie, or a tactic to prolong the affair. I don't really want to get in to stats we can't back up or debate. I just wanted to point out this article and once again reiterate how very important a DNA test is if their is a claim of pregnancy in play.
I guess overall I just wanted people to be aware of how low some people will sink
We don't see things as they are; we see them as we are.... Anais Nin
Posts: 46565 | Registered: Sep 2006
Member # 29341
| Posted: 9:17 AM, September 4th (Wednesday), 2013|
Ugh. So low-down and dirty.
We're both in our 30s. One awesome 5-year-old daughter. Baby Green 2.0 expected June 2015!!!!!!!!!
Posts: 7182 | Registered: Aug 2010 | From: Somewhere in the South
Member # 17460
| Posted: 9:19 AM, September 4th (Wednesday), 2013|
Humanity: Hell in a hand basket.
Fidelity isn't a feeling...it's a choice.
"Truth has no special time of its own. Its hour is now - always." - Albert Schweitzer
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DS - 31 - Yikes!
Posts: 21163 | Registered: Dec 2007 | From: Been Through Hell...On My Way Back
Member # 30369
| Posted: 9:24 AM, September 4th (Wednesday), 2013|
It's sad that almost nothing surprises me anymore. Still... very good for people to know and be aware of what is going on out there. Amazing the depths people will sink to.
"I'm touched by the idea that when we do things that are useful and helpful -- collecting these shards of spirituality -- that we may be helping to bring about a healing." Leonard Nimoy
Posts: 10475 | Registered: Dec 2010
Member # 18429
| Posted: 10:10 AM, September 4th (Wednesday), 2013|
This was on the news in my local area just last night. The local news showed over 100 ads posted in 3 days of women selling their positive pregnancy tests for 20-25 bucks each. They emailed lots of the posters, but received exactly 0 replies back.
My H looked at me and said "I don't know what's sadder, the person who's buying the test, or the person who's selling it". Good point.
This really smells like the women who pretend to be pregnant for 8 months and then kill some pregnant woman to steal her baby from her. It starts of small, like buying a positive pregnancy test, and easily gets out of control. Such a sad footnote on the timeline of our humanity.
DDay - Dec '07
Me - BS
Him - FWS
Us - Committed
May 18, 2010 - I forgave him fully!
"Behold, I have refined thee, but not with silver; I have chosen thee in the furnace of affliction." Isaiah 48:10
Posts: 3859 | Registered: Feb 2008
Member # 34086
| Posted: 10:21 AM, September 4th (Wednesday), 2013|
I'll be a cynic and say I wish I had one of these during my wife's affair. Let's just say I've been tutored for a long time, so the chances of me getting my wife pregnant are zero. During her A, her periods were really out of whack, and at one point I joked that she must be pregnant, thinking that she would joke back. She surprised me with her forceful response that if she was, it had to be mine, got angry, and changed the subject. I would of loved having one of these to make her take a pregnancy test with - maybe I would of outed the A more than a year earlier than I did. Her AP wasn't fixed, so getting pregnant was a big fear of hers. It's one of the things that I still have doubts about.
Married: 17 years (14 @JFO)
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Posts: 4243 | Registered: Dec 2011
Member # 16305
| Posted: 11:52 AM, September 4th (Wednesday), 2013|
Thats when the supposed father says: let me see the ob/gyn report.
People tell you exactly who they are...why expect them to be what they are not ....will be divorcing
Finally fealing peace.
Posts: 8788 | Registered: Sep 2007
Member # 12802
| Posted: 3:48 PM, September 4th (Wednesday), 2013|
Good gravy. The lengths some people will go to to deceive. At some point some people need to stop themselves and think "I'm going to purchase something that someone peed
on in order to ______ ."? There's no fill in the blank that makes this okay. Someone PEED on it. You are buying dried pee! You are purchasing human waste! Urine need of more help than craigslist can provide there sparky.
From time to time, I do consider that I might be mad. Like any self-respecting lunatic, however, I am always quick to dismiss any doubts about my sanity. DK
Posts: 14895 | Registered: Nov 2006 | From: mercury's underboob
Member # 31349
| Posted: 3:49 PM, September 4th (Wednesday), 2013|
Holy shit - something like this would have NEVER occurred to me.
is WRONG with people?!?!
"All the wars, all the hatred, all the ignorance in the world come out of being so invested in our opinions. And at bottom, those opinions are merely our efforts to escape the underlying uneasiness of being human. - Pema Chodron
Posts: 20743 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: California
Member # 40113
| Posted: 4:03 PM, September 4th (Wednesday), 2013|
My WW and I have decided to move forward with trying to get pregnant.
I told her up front that any child of hers was going to have paternity testing done to prove that I'm the father.
Hopefully there is no way that a paternity test can be faked.
Posts: 59 | Registered: Jul 2013 | From: New York City
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