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Dreamboat (original poster member #10506) posted at 11:29 PM on Wednesday, September 4th, 2013
In some ways I really love Sept. I love the weather, football starts, baseball has the playoffs, ... lots of good things in Sept.
But a lot of bad memories too. My antiversary is this month, a lot of bad shit went down with X and OW 8 years ago, and my Dad died 6 years ago.
I wish I could have the weather and the football without the memories.
And it's hard to dance with a devil on your back
So shake him off
-- Shake It Out, Florence And The Machine
cayc ( member #21964) posted at 11:33 PM on Wednesday, September 4th, 2013
jo2love ( member #31528) posted at 11:38 PM on Wednesday, September 4th, 2013
nowiknow23 ( member #33226) posted at 11:56 PM on Wednesday, September 4th, 2013
Dreamboat - I understand. Your September is my August. Hang in there, practice your self-care, and the difficult days will soon be past you. (((((hugs)))))
You can call me NIK
And never grow a wishbone, daughter, where your backbone ought to be.
― Sarah McMane
peridot ( member #18334) posted at 12:16 AM on Thursday, September 5th, 2013
I think...therefore, I'm single.
It is what it is.
miadianna ( member #10516) posted at 12:33 AM on Thursday, September 5th, 2013
I understand. Mine is August. First date, August 28th and wedding August 10. Good thing I'm now am at tennis tournaments for both of those days and never remember until it's over because I'm so busy having a great time.
Me: BS 60Son: 34years oldDaughter: 32 years old Divorced 4/10/08XH passed away 6/24/16
caregiver9000 ( member #28622) posted at 3:31 AM on Thursday, September 5th, 2013
your September is my May. Don't sleep through it. You have identified some pretty good reasons to get up. At least on Saturdays. 
((((Dreamboat))))
Me: fortysomething, independent, happy,
XH "Stretch" (and Skew!) ;)
two kids, teens. Old enough I am truly NO CONTACT w/ NPD zebraduck
S 5/2010
D 12/2012
Dreamboat (original poster member #10506) posted at 4:11 AM on Thursday, September 5th, 2013
Thanks everyone 
And (((hugs))) back
I think I am just really missing my parents right now and the calendar is not helping.
And it's hard to dance with a devil on your back
So shake him off
-- Shake It Out, Florence And The Machine
gma56 ( member #19595) posted at 4:53 AM on Thursday, September 5th, 2013
(((Dreamboat)))
I hope you get through the month and when looking back you can say, "It wasn't so bad."
Gma
BW-Divorced
It's my life now, my choices, my mistakes to make and my victories to celebrate. His choices made me free of liars and betrayers in my life. That is priceless.
click4it ( member #209) posted at 4:59 AM on Thursday, September 5th, 2013
Me: 45
Two boys: 20 and 17
Divorced 12-13-05
d-day 10-02-01
Laughter will cure life's ills. Have you had your laugh today?
Lola2kids ( member #32789) posted at 6:10 PM on Thursday, September 5th, 2013
Oh yes, Dream, your September is my July.
My late mom's birthday
The day she died (my nephew's birthday)
Ex's ex wife's birthday and their anniversary.
My sister's birthday (the one who hates birthdays)
And then this year the fucktard decides to get engaged to OW in July!
I get it. Don't sleep through it. We all understand. It will go by before you know it.
I hope.
BS: (Me) 48
Kids: twins DD(11)
D-Day April 18, 2011
Him:out Sept. 11, 2011
He moved an ocean away June 27, 2014.
"They say that absence makes the heart grow fonder but I am growing more and more fond of his absence"
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