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Topic: Wake me up when September ends...
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Dreamboat
♀ 10506
Member # 10506 |  Posted: 5:29 PM, September 4th (Wednesday), 2013 |     |
In some ways I really love Sept. I love the weather, football starts, baseball has the playoffs, ... lots of good things in Sept.
But a lot of bad memories too. My antiversary is this month, a lot of bad shit went down with X and OW 8 years ago, and my Dad died 6 years ago.
I wish I could have the weather and the football without the memories.
And it's hard to dance with a devil on your back
So shake him off
-- Shake It Out, Florence And The Machine
Posts: 17695 | Registered: Apr 2006 | From: A better place :) |
cayc
♀ 21964
Member # 21964 | | Posted: 5:33 PM, September 4th (Wednesday), 2013 | |
(((dreamboat)))
"I'm not afraid of storms, for I'm learning how to sail my ship." - Louisa May Alcott
Posts: 3294 | Registered: Dec 2008 | From: Mexico |
jo2love
♀ 31528
Member # 31528 | | Posted: 5:38 PM, September 4th (Wednesday), 2013 | |
(((Dreamboat)))
Posts: 38322 | Registered: Mar 2011 |
nowiknow23
♀ 33226
Member # 33226 | | Posted: 5:56 PM, September 4th (Wednesday), 2013 | |
Dreamboat - I understand. Your September is my August. Hang in there, practice your self-care, and the difficult days will soon be past you. (((((hugs)))))
You can call me NIK
“The most difficult times for many of us are the ones we give ourselves.”
― Pema Chödrön
Posts: 28408 | Registered: Aug 2011 |
peridot
♀ 18334
Member # 18334 | | Posted: 6:16 PM, September 4th (Wednesday), 2013 | |
(((Dreamboat)))
I think...therefore, I'm single.
It is what it is.
Posts: 4831 | Registered: Feb 2008 |
miadianna
♀ 10516
Member # 10516 | | Posted: 6:33 PM, September 4th (Wednesday), 2013 | |
I understand. Mine is August. First date, August 28th and wedding August 10. Good thing I'm now am at tennis tournaments for both of those days and never remember until it's over because I'm so busy having a great time.
Me: BS 53
Son: 27 years old
Daughter: 25 years old
D-day(s) 9/23/94 - 1/31/05
Divorced 4/10/08
Posts: 7490 | Registered: Apr 2006 | From: Illinois |
caregiver9000
♀ 28622
Member # 28622 | | Posted: 9:31 PM, September 4th (Wednesday), 2013 | |
your September is my May. Don't sleep through it. You have identified some pretty good reasons to get up. At least on Saturdays. 
((((Dreamboat))))
Me: 44, independent, happy, despite co-parenting with a lower muppet
FT "Stretch" (and Skew!) ;)
DS 13 DS 10
S 5/2010
D 12/2012
Posts: 6052 | Registered: May 2010 | From: a better place |
Dreamboat
♀ 10506
Member # 10506 | | Posted: 10:11 PM, September 4th (Wednesday), 2013 | |
Thanks everyone 
And (((hugs))) back
I think I am just really missing my parents right now and the calendar is not helping.
And it's hard to dance with a devil on your back
So shake him off
-- Shake It Out, Florence And The Machine
Posts: 17695 | Registered: Apr 2006 | From: A better place :) |
gma56
♀ 19595
Member # 19595 | | Posted: 10:53 PM, September 4th (Wednesday), 2013 | |
(((Dreamboat)))
I hope you get through the month and when looking back you can say, "It wasn't so bad."
Gma
BW-Divorced
It's my life now, my choices, my mistakes to make and my victories to celebrate. His choices made me free of liars and betrayers in my life. That is priceless.
Posts: 20395 | Registered: May 2008 | From: Closer to where I want to be.. |
click4it
♀ 209
Member # 209 | | Posted: 10:59 PM, September 4th (Wednesday), 2013 | |
(((((dream))))))))
Me: 42
Two boys: 17 and 14
Divorced 12-13-05
d-day 10-02-01
Laughter will cure life's ills. Have you had your laugh today?
Posts: 25649 | Registered: Jun 2002 | From: California |
Lola2kids
♀ 32789
Member # 32789 | | Posted: 12:10 PM, September 5th (Thursday), 2013 | |
Oh yes, Dream, your September is my July.
My late mom's birthday
The day she died (my nephew's birthday)
Ex's ex wife's birthday and their anniversary.
My sister's birthday (the one who hates birthdays)
And then this year the fucktard decides to get engaged to OW in July!
I get it. Don't sleep through it. We all understand. It will go by before you know it.
I hope.
BS: (Me) 48
Kids: twins DD(10)
D-Day April 18, 2011
Him:out Sept. 11, 2011
He moved an ocean away June 27, 2014.
"They say that absence makes the heart grow fonder but I am growing more and more fond of his absence"
Posts: 1604 | Registered: Jul 2011 | From: Ontario, Canada |
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