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Dreamboat posted 9/4/2013 17:29 PM

In some ways I really love Sept. I love the weather, football starts, baseball has the playoffs, ... lots of good things in Sept.

But a lot of bad memories too. My antiversary is this month, a lot of bad shit went down with X and OW 8 years ago, and my Dad died 6 years ago.

I wish I could have the weather and the football without the memories.

cayc posted 9/4/2013 17:33 PM

(((dreamboat)))

jo2love posted 9/4/2013 17:38 PM

(((Dreamboat)))

nowiknow23 posted 9/4/2013 17:56 PM

Dreamboat - I understand. Your September is my August. Hang in there, practice your self-care, and the difficult days will soon be past you. (((((hugs)))))

peridot posted 9/4/2013 18:16 PM

(((Dreamboat)))

miadianna posted 9/4/2013 18:33 PM

I understand. Mine is August. First date, August 28th and wedding August 10. Good thing I'm now am at tennis tournaments for both of those days and never remember until it's over because I'm so busy having a great time.

caregiver9000 posted 9/4/2013 21:31 PM

your September is my May. Don't sleep through it. You have identified some pretty good reasons to get up. At least on Saturdays.

((((Dreamboat))))

Dreamboat posted 9/4/2013 22:11 PM

Thanks everyone

And (((hugs))) back

I think I am just really missing my parents right now and the calendar is not helping.

gma56 posted 9/4/2013 22:53 PM

(((Dreamboat)))

I hope you get through the month and when looking back you can say, "It wasn't so bad."

Gma

click4it posted 9/4/2013 22:59 PM

(((((dream))))))))

Lola2kids posted 9/5/2013 12:10 PM

Oh yes, Dream, your September is my July.

My late mom's birthday

The day she died (my nephew's birthday)

Ex's ex wife's birthday and their anniversary.

My sister's birthday (the one who hates birthdays)

And then this year the fucktard decides to get engaged to OW in July!

I get it. Don't sleep through it. We all understand. It will go by before you know it.
I hope.