very good. By Stosny. I love the part where he explains that trust isn't physically (yes!) possible until a few cycles of of closeness and distress have gone by... that there needs to be a certain amount of time that goes by before the brain can let that person in again.
his Dday: 2/10 but TT until 7/11
my Ddays: 1/12, 4/12 broken NC 12/12
me (WW/BS): 48
4 kiddos in mid 20's
“Most things will be okay eventually, but not everything will be. Acceptance is a small, quiet room.”