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whatjusthappened posted 9/4/2013 21:28 PM

My situation is a little different in that OW's H was not an "innocent betrayed" in all of this. He was the one who set up the threesomes between FWH and him and OW and told FWH that if I wasn't going to agree to swinging and/or group sex that he "needed to look out for his (FWH's) own needs." I remain convinced that the only reason OWH told me about the A is because OW and FWH broke his rules by cutting him out.

They've always had a shitty relationship. And after DDay she tried to apologize by saying that it wasn't her fault, and that she never meant for me to be involved in her terrible marriage. FWH and I responded with crickets to that, and to her subsequent fishing expeditions.

Just heard from a mutual friend that she's convinced he's cheating on her. And she's heartbroken and can't believe it.

Poor, stupid, pathetic OW.

tired girl posted 9/4/2013 23:24 PM

Karma??

Hey lady! How are you?

woundedby2 posted 9/5/2013 01:24 AM

Yup. What goes around, comes around.

Poor widdle muffin...

TrustGone posted 9/5/2013 01:55 AM

Yep..It makes you wonder how anyone can think that both spouses screwing around can ever result in a good outcome. If you want to screw around with other people, just stay single!!!

After I filed for D from XWH#1, I found a membership to a swingers club under his nightstand drawer. I never asked him about it because at that point I didn't want to know what he was involved in. I just went and got STD tested to make sure he hadn't passed anything on to me.

confused615 posted 9/5/2013 06:43 AM

Oh no! Well, let's all say a prayer that it's not true. We all know how much this hurts. Poor thing. And she feels blindsided? Wow. I just can't imagine,can you? Bless her heart.


[This message edited by confused615 at 6:45 AM, September 5th (Thursday)]

SisterMilkshake posted 9/5/2013 10:25 AM

Hope it hurts OW a lot. I do wish this pain on my worst enemies. ( I only have one, OW!)

pewpewpew posted 9/5/2013 10:35 AM

I just love that bitch, Karma!

whatjusthappened posted 9/6/2013 15:46 PM

Yep, Karma's a beyotch! confused, are you a Southern girl? Because my Southern momma always said that: Bless her heart, and the more adjectives she used ("Bless her poor, little, ever-lovin' heart"), the more she was saying "Eff you!"

Hi TG!!! Things here continue to go really, really well. Despite this short rant against Whorseface, we're healing really well.

StillLivin posted 9/6/2013 15:51 PM

Bwahahahahahahahaha!
Bless her broken heart!

niaveone posted 9/6/2013 18:33 PM

MOW in my case was in an "open marriage" but it was a shitty one. Her husband got pissed about her relationship with WS, even though he was in a relationship with someone else too. That's how the whole affair blew up to begin with....her husband getting jealous of my WS.

They tried getting back together after DD#2, but I guess it's been short lived. She's been back living in the house since July 1st, and they are going through with divorce now.

Can't say I feel sorry for either of them, however, I DO feel sorry for the kids (11 and 14) that have to be dragged along for the *fun* of it.

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