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trebleclef (original poster member #33488) posted at 4:16 AM on Thursday, September 5th, 2013
I am an on-line mentor for a site on which I often get "clients" with issues related to infidelity. Tonight "Anonymous" sent the following message:
"You see, i found some sexual images on his history from his phone (youtube). He boldly said he does not know how it got there... i contacted my pastor and was told that you tube has the power to replace a deleted video from an author, and replace it with something else (in this case, these specific, offensive & hurtful videos on my husbands history) my pastor said something similar happend to his own son and he walked him through it all, therefore, he knows it to be possible ones history can be replaced with another video. But my, my, i just dont seem to accept that maybe my husband is innocent! For years ive accused him with really no solid proof, but mainly out of fear."
Before I try to respond with my oh-so-limited wisdom but loads of compassion, is there someone out there who would know more than I do about whether what this pastor claims is in fact possible?
True remorse isn't followed by a "but".
Nature_Girl ( member #32554) posted at 5:10 AM on Thursday, September 5th, 2013
That's never happened to me, and I'm a heavy YouTube user w/ a channel & multiple playlists. Sometimes YT will not allow a video to play on a playlist, but it NEVER replaces that video with another one. There's simply a message which comes up indicating that the video won't play for whatever reason.
ETA: Whenever a video I normally watch has been deleted by the owner, there is a message generated which says the vid has been deleted by the owner. No video plays. Just a black screen & the message.
[This message edited by Nature_Girl at 11:12 PM, September 4th (Wednesday)]
Me = BS
Him = EX-d out (abusive troglodyte NPD SA)
3 tween-aged kids
Together 20 years
D-Day: Memorial Weekend 2011
2013 - DIVORCED!
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wJgjyDFfJuU
Ostrich80 ( member #34827) posted at 10:25 AM on Thursday, September 5th, 2013
I've never seen it happen. Perhaps the pastor son was ashamed of his viewing and didn't want dad to think badly of him.
BS..me
WS..him
Been with him over half my life
4kid
DD1 10-01-09 DD2 02-12-12 discovered it never ended
OW..nothing special. Just your average skank
Status..#$%@????
confused615 ( member #30826) posted at 12:40 PM on Thursday, September 5th, 2013
BS(me)44
FWH 48
4 kids
M: June 2001
D-Day: 8/10/10
..that feeling you get in your stomach, when you heart's broken. It's like all the butterflies just died.
Nature_Girl ( member #32554) posted at 3:54 PM on Thursday, September 5th, 2013
Perhaps the pastor son was ashamed of his viewing and didn't want dad to think badly of him
Word!
Me = BS
Him = EX-d out (abusive troglodyte NPD SA)
3 tween-aged kids
Together 20 years
D-Day: Memorial Weekend 2011
2013 - DIVORCED!
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wJgjyDFfJuU
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