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sodamnlost (original poster member #37190) posted at 12:49 PM on Friday, September 6th, 2013
I know I am not alone in this one. STBXWH is my 2nd husband but has been there since my youngest was a year old. My oldest DD is turning 13 this weekend. She *ADORES* him. We were talking last night and she tells me the first time she met STBXWH is his first memory EVER. My heart is breaking knowing her tender, huge heart will be broken in a few days when we tell them. Today is her big party we have been planning for almost a year. Have to find my happy face... 
Me - BS original Dday 10-2012, separated June 2014, divorce Fall 2016
Grief, loss and pain taunt her - "you will never be the same." Like a Phoenix rising from the ashes, she rises and spreads her new wings as she brushes off the ashes an
nowiknow23 ( member #33226) posted at 1:18 PM on Friday, September 6th, 2013
((((sodamnlost)))) I remember the weight on my chest in the days before we told the kids. Every laugh cut me to the core, just knowing how their world was going to change. Focus on your DD's big day for now. Soak in every minute of it.
Sending you strength, honey.
You can call me NIK
And never grow a wishbone, daughter, where your backbone ought to be.
― Sarah McMane
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