Me BS - 40
i wrote few weeks earlier about it. xwh requested to see child therapist as he had concerns about dd behaviour.
therapist sussed him out in first meeting and said that issues are with him not DD. and asked to come back in few weeks time when she will assess if she needs to see DD.
so we go back. the assesment is that she does not to see DD, as all described sounds perfectly normal.
but she says the issues is the level of anxiety and lack of trust between us. if we would like to better parents she could see us every few weeks so 'help' with that. that would mean going through all divorce, affair etc etc issues.
personally i have no interest in discussing this again and again. no amount of talking is not going to talk me into trusting him..
xwh would like to go (me thinks lack for triange is killing the passion with ow)
what would you do?
1 child - 7y
married 5 yrs, together 7
DD1 midmarch 09
DD2 early june 09
some more DD's of course - cannot bother to list
Status: Divorced Oct 2011
Him: still with OW