Then he says that he wishes he could take the best parts of her and me and mix them together. Wtf? He said she was a hard worker and adventurous. Yes because talking to you at work to avoid working clearly shows a good work ethic and having sex at work and getting drunk all the time is so awesome.
Yes I'm a little cranky today and he's getting the lack of attention he deserves.
Sorry but I had to be honest. This guy is not worth the effort.
T
Through thick and thin we will survive but he gets only one shot at it!
Oh, Honey, he needs some attention. Some serious attention. Well, his shit does. The shit you pack into Hefty Bags & hurl out the door. Then you scream at him, "Hope the door knob hits ya where the Good Lord split ya!"
What a bastard!
I just want him to understand that a good friend doesn't help you destroy your family. And you are a grown ass man and being jealous of the attention your wife gives your children is fucked up. He would get jealous that I would leave him to go to the grocery store.
And what did he do today. He's been laying on the couch and the bed playing clash of the clans. I asked him if he could clean out his van today because it smells awful. He had told me to leave him alone. So I told him 'you know for someone that thinks so highly of other people's work ethics you'd think you'd do some work too."
I think I may have pissed him off. darn. Seriously I understand that I'm a SAHM and my job doesn't pay but that doesn't mean that I don't have a good work ethic.
I just can't believe how immature he is sometimes. We are both 33 and we've been together since we were 19 and married at 21. We have 6 kids. how the hell do you not grow up in that time frame?
ugh.
I am so angry for you. Punch a kitten, no throwing him off a building, yah.
It is a bit concerning that he is able to drink and take 6-7 ativan in a day, and still be able to communicate, this is overdose level use of this medicine.
The next time he talks about mixing you two together or wishing he'd slept with her, send him this meme:
eta: Way better than alcohol and Ativan, anyway. Or kitten punching.
[This message edited by silverhopes at 5:01 PM, September 6th (Friday)]
Hey cuppa...6 or 7 ativan plus alcohol?? Is he on a suicide mission...that's very dangerous. I knew someone that died doing that, accidentally
[This message edited by Ostrich80 at 6:37 PM, September 6th (Friday)]
He was still "friends" with skank back in March when he got real bad when he started going to the doctor. I kicked him out for a few days (pre dday). He called the skank to talk to her because she was such a great friend and she told him she didn't have time for his shit.
but somehow i'm the bad guy. i'm the only person that has ever truly loved him and this is the shit i get. I'm not perfect by any means but I'm not going to let him get away with shit. He calls that me being a bitch and being all over his shit. No that's me trying to get you to be a man not a boy.
i'm just really afraid of the day when he puts one of his plans in motion.
I told him several times, every time he said it, it made me want to hit him. Of course I never did, but I could live the rest of my life without hearing, "I don't know!" again!
I think mainly because he's lying. He knows, and I know he knows, so just tell me the damn truth!
he says that he wishes he could take the best parts of her and me and mix them together.
^^^What the hell is wrong with him????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????
The truth hurts, but I have never seen it cause the pain that lies do.
yes he's suicidal. He's been for a very long time. He would rather ignore his problems than deal with them so turn into mountains then he feels like ending his life is the best way to handle it all.
That's serious. Is he in IC? The Ativan and alcohol can't be helping him when he uses them this way. It sounds like he needs professional support to learn some better coping techniques. Does he refuse to seek out help for his health?
Do you and the kids feel safe?
