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Topic: Man arrested for spreading H I V

simplydevastated
♀ 25001
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Posted: 1:04 PM, September 6th (Friday), 2013

I hope it's all right that I post this.

I was reading about this man (originally from Dallas, then moved to Missouri). He claims to have slept with 300 men after finding out he was HIV positive. What if one of the men slept with him and then went home to his wife?

This is scary stuff.

http://www.cbsnews.com/8301-204_162-57601629/man-charged-with-spreading-hiv-claims-300-partners/

Me - BS, 40 (I'm not old...I'm vintage)
Two Wonderful children - DS11, DD8
Getting my ducks in a row for divorce... finally (4+ D-Days too many - listed in profile.)

Posts: 6116 | Registered: Jul 2009 | From: In the darkest depths of hell!

Eudaimonia
♀ 32445
Member # 32445

Posted: 1:10 PM, September 6th (Friday), 2013

Good ol' Craig's List strikes again...

So long, and thanks for all the fish!

Posts: 472 | Registered: Jun 2011

doesitgetbetter
♀ 18429
Member # 18429

Posted: 1:13 PM, September 6th (Friday), 2013

This is EXACTLY why one should NEVER believe the old line "but it was just chatting online, I never met anyone in person, we don't need to get tested for STD's". They lie, they cheat, and then they risk YOUR life. Get tested, and NEVER trust someone who is telling you (or being caught) that they are LYING to you!

DDay - Dec '07
Me - BS
Him - turns out he's a SAWH
Us - ?????
May 18, 2010 - I forgave him fully!
D-day 2 July 4, 2015, status, working harder than ever before, trying to fix something we thought we already had. It's SO hard!

Posts: 4115 | Registered: Feb 2008

simplydevastated
♀ 25001
Member # 25001

Posted: 3:10 PM, September 6th (Friday), 2013

You're exactly right, doesitgetbetter.

Me - BS, 40 (I'm not old...I'm vintage)
Two Wonderful children - DS11, DD8
Getting my ducks in a row for divorce... finally (4+ D-Days too many - listed in profile.)

Posts: 6116 | Registered: Jul 2009 | From: In the darkest depths of hell!

PollyA
♀ 40567
Member # 40567

Posted: 3:58 PM, September 6th (Friday), 2013

And get tested yourself. Do not count on your partner's TELLING you they were tested and the results are negative. Their truth telling skills are lacking.

This is the hardest thing for me to understand. For six years, he chose anonymous hookups and the potential danger it involves over MY HEALTH. I don't know if I can ever forget that and trust again.

BW - 2 x's ( once before married, got therapy, thought we'd both moved forward)
WH - SA? Probably not. Just a Selfish ASS
DD1 - 4/2001 - 1 OW, left, returned, therapy, thought he'd "gotten it". I was wrong.
DD2 - 8/2013 -

Posts: 467 | Registered: Sep 2013 | From: PollyA

hemademesingle
♀ 21281
Member # 21281

Posted: 4:05 PM, September 6th (Friday), 2013

We have one here in Ontario that is going to be released on saturday, he was convicted of having unprotected sex with women, who he met on line

The scary part is that they lie, and they don't look sick,

Posts: 435 | Registered: Oct 2008 | From: Canada

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