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simplydevastated (original poster member #25001) posted at 7:04 PM on Friday, September 6th, 2013
I hope it's all right that I post this.
I was reading about this man (originally from Dallas, then moved to Missouri). He claims to have slept with 300 men after finding out he was HIV positive. What if one of the men slept with him and then went home to his wife?
This is scary stuff.
http://www.cbsnews.com/8301-204_162-57601629/man-charged-with-spreading-hiv-claims-300-partners/
Me - BS, 40 (I'm not old...I'm vintage)
Two Wonderful children - DS11, DD8
Getting my ducks in a row for divorce... finally (4+ D-Days too many - listed in profile.)
Eudaimonia ( member #32445) posted at 7:10 PM on Friday, September 6th, 2013
Good ol' Craig's List strikes again...
So long, and thanks for all the fish!
doesitgetbetter ( member #18429) posted at 7:13 PM on Friday, September 6th, 2013
This is EXACTLY why one should NEVER believe the old line "but it was just chatting online, I never met anyone in person, we don't need to get tested for STD's". They lie, they cheat, and then they risk YOUR life. Get tested, and NEVER trust someone who is telling you (or being caught) that they are LYING to you!
DDay - Dec '07
Me - BS
Him - WS
Us - working on R - again
May 18, 2010 - I forgave him fully!
D-day 2 July 4, 2015, turns out he is a SAWH, status, working harder than before
May 22, 2019 -slip/relapse. He forgot he has to work forever
simplydevastated (original poster member #25001) posted at 9:10 PM on Friday, September 6th, 2013
You're exactly right, doesitgetbetter.
Me - BS, 40 (I'm not old...I'm vintage)
Two Wonderful children - DS11, DD8
Getting my ducks in a row for divorce... finally (4+ D-Days too many - listed in profile.)
PollyA ( member #40567) posted at 9:58 PM on Friday, September 6th, 2013
And get tested yourself. Do not count on your partner's TELLING you they were tested and the results are negative. Their truth telling skills are lacking.
This is the hardest thing for me to understand. For six years, he chose anonymous hookups and the potential danger it involves over MY HEALTH. I don't know if I can ever forget that and trust again.
BW - 2 x's ( once before married, got therapy, thought we'd both moved forward)
WH - SA? Probably not. Just a Selfish ASS
DD1 - 4/2001 - 1 OW, left, returned, therapy, thought he'd "gotten it". I was wrong.
DD2 - 8/2013 -
hemademesingle ( member #21281) posted at 10:05 PM on Friday, September 6th, 2013
We have one here in Ontario that is going to be released on saturday, he was convicted of having unprotected sex with women, who he met on line
The scary part is that they lie, and they don't look sick,
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