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User Topic: Butt dialed a random person in my phone....
♀ 35758
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Default  Posted: 3:44 PM, September 6th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

right after our MC session. We were deep in a discussion about the whole sordid mess. A very good conversation. It was recorded in all its glory.

Me BS 42 Him WS 44
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Posts: 2038 | Registered: Jun 2012
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Default  Posted: 5:17 PM, September 6th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


Was it a random number from your contacts or a strangers #?

If it was it someone you know, would you feel comfortable calling and explaining the mistake and asking that they delete the msg and respect your privacy about this?

If it was a stranger, I'd be mortified, but let it go.

[This message edited by unfound at 5:19 PM, September 6th (Friday)]

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Posts: 14938 | Registered: Nov 2006 | From: mercury's underboob
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Default  Posted: 5:49 PM, September 6th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Omgosh...I'm Ocd about checking my phone. I'm always afraid of that because I did it once but someone I knew and just random car conversation. Crap!!
Been with him over half my life
DD1 10-01-09 DD2 02-12-12 discovered it never ended
OW..nothing special. Just your average skank

Posts: 5738 | Registered: Feb 2012 | From: midwest
♀ 38378
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Default  Posted: 5:50 PM, September 6th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Nearly Exh was doing this for a time and got a new phone and it's ended right now. It was really frustrating.

Or he will mis-text.

ETA that it really helps me try to be less personal on my cell phone but is not easy.

[This message edited by Ashland13 at 5:51 PM, September 6th (Friday)]

Ashland 13

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Posts: 3034 | Registered: Feb 2013 | From: New England
♀ 27196
Member # 27196
Default  Posted: 10:19 PM, September 6th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

FWH's phone butt dialed me while he was getting a lap dance. It was very late, and the home phone answering machine picked up and recorded until the tape ran out.

Nice huh?

Me, BS, 58
Him, WS 61
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