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TxsT posted 9/6/2013 16:52 PM

hey everyone.....

Just for fun I wanted to post something lighter in nature this afternnon....try and make people smile.

one of the best parts of our R has been how we have reconnected through the simple act of kissing. while I was driving today I stopped to think about how much I had missed really taking the time to put feeling and attention into kissing my husband. I used to really be proud of how expressive my kissing was back in the day and I had come to realize that our kissing had degenerated down to that fleeting peck, air kiss, cheek butt or forhead smooch that really only shows intent but does not let you FEEL intent.

How many of you have realigned your kissing through this sad time?? Have you stopped dead in your tracks and focused completely on your spouce or do you still just send gestures. This morning my kiss goodbye to my hubby as he left for work was sweet enough and expressive enough for him to text me at lunch and say he was still thinking of the wonderful kiss I gave him this morning. That made me smile...

[This message edited by TxsT at 4:53 PM, September 6th (Friday)]

Getting to Happy posted 9/6/2013 18:14 PM

Mr Happy has big beautiful lips. We kiss a lot .

We have a parrot. She would always make kissing sounds whenever we got close.

She stopped for a while.

But now she does it all the time...She knows...

Thanks for this sweet thread TxsT!

Rebreather posted 9/6/2013 18:28 PM

Well, we established a rule that whoever comes home second has to approach the other with a welcome home kiss. And mean it. My kids are disgusted. I think it means we are doing something right.

TxsT posted 9/6/2013 18:41 PM

Getting....Ok the Parrot kissing noises, and lack of them, fall right into a post i read about looking at old pictures of us during tha A...something was off in our WS eyes and you can visably see it! In your house you visbaly heard it

Rebreather...this is a sweet idea. I love the kid reaction and yes it does mean you are doing something right. Our sons asked us to get a room a few weeks ago. We had to gentally remind them they were in OUR house!!!

T

catlover50 posted 9/6/2013 19:08 PM

Our kissing rocks now!

LA44 posted 9/6/2013 19:21 PM

The kissing is wayyyy better.

Just sayin'!

bionicgal posted 9/6/2013 21:48 PM

Improved 1000%!
(And the sex, too!)

AML04 posted 9/7/2013 06:49 AM

I love kissing my H again :)

brokensmile322 posted 9/7/2013 06:57 AM

Yes, we took a snooze in the kissing department.

I love kissing...

struggling3 posted 9/7/2013 07:09 AM

We never really stopped kissing in our 31 married years but I admit it has gotten a little more intense....I love it. We went to a "Weekend to remember" conference last week and one of the couple presenters said they make sure they have at least one 30 second kiss a day. I liked that...try to do it.

TxsT posted 9/7/2013 10:14 AM

Thanks everyone for brightening my day. I for one am so glad that both of us are done with superficial kissing. I had forgotten how much one beautiful, sexual kiss can help the positive thoughts flow through your entire day

T

painpaingoaway posted 9/7/2013 14:16 PM

Love this!

I dare y'all to post kissing photos!

I'll go first, this one is a few yrs old, but it's the only kissing one I have:

Poof!

[This message edited by painpaingoaway at 9:04 PM, September 15th (Sunday)]

ionlytalkedtoher posted 9/7/2013 14:16 PM

hmmm I think we are still in the superficial kissing stage.

I think there is still a lot lacking for us.

I need to make more of an effort.

shatteredheart7 posted 9/7/2013 14:22 PM

I love love love kissing my DH! Always have! But for 2 yrs there was not one kiss between us. My kids now walk out of the room when we start. I can kiss him for hours. When he leaves for work we kiss all the way to his truck, as he is getting in his truck and then once more before he drives off. When he gets home I am waiting for him with another kiss! Those are my favorites, he wraps his hands in my hair and pushes me up against a wall. There have been many times that dinner is delayed because of his welcome home kiss leading to more. It is time to go wake him up, he is working nights this weekend, and yeap... I'm gonna wake him up with a kiss!

painpaingoaway posted 9/7/2013 14:25 PM

he wraps his hands in my hair and pushes me up against a wall.

2married2quit posted 9/7/2013 18:33 PM

Hate to be the party pooper but I only kiss FWW goodbye and hello a peck. That's it. No making out. I will if I had a few drinks and sometimes during sex. I was her first and only kiss but now that has been broken after 22 yrs. just doesn't feel the same. Sorry. I actually wish we could go without kissing for a year so it clears the air.

TxsT posted 9/8/2013 22:54 PM

Awwwwww 2married.....I am sorry to hear that. I could not imagine getting to where we are today and not really kissing. I hope that changes for you buddy.

T

SorrowBhindSmile posted 9/8/2013 23:07 PM

maaaaaaaaaan...my WH is out of town on business....now i REALLY miss him and want a kiss!! LOL!

We like to play the red light game...on date nights, anytime we stop at a red light, we kiss till it turns green!! we have gotten a few honks!

ccw82 posted 9/8/2013 23:17 PM

Ok, how do you insert a photo? I have no idea but would love to add to the kissing thread!

TxsT posted 9/9/2013 00:02 AM

Sorrow....I love that idea!!!!!!

Tonight I had a great time just putting my hand on H's thigh while we drove back from the mountains. No other touching at all. I was so pleased that it made me all hot and bothered to just touch him again!!!!! When we got in the house I gave him a wonderful kiss and he gave me the nicest, bear huggiest hug.....the world is getting better!

T