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User Topic: Weekend Plans - Woohoo!
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Default  Posted: 5:19 PM, September 6th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I have no plans this weekend. My bank account is still recovering from a trip to Alaska.

So tonight I'm sitting on the couch having a drink. I may move to sitting outside beside a fire tonight once it gets dark here.

Tomorrow is cleaning and yard work. I may venture to a coffee place to do school work.

Sunday is a BBQ and the Steeler game.

It's an exciting life.

When one door closes, another door opens. It's the journey through the hallway that sucks.
"After a breakup, the loyal one stays single and deals with the damages until healed. The other one is already in another relationship."

Posts: 3993 | Registered: Jul 2008
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Default  Posted: 6:00 PM, September 6th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I have to work :( It's the only weekend all year as it's our client conference and I'm in charge of it.

But at least it's at a super swanky resort and I'll get some spa treatments out of it.

Tonight -- cleaning my house so I'll be happy when I come home

Saturday -- running for a couple of hours really early in the morning, then heading to the resort to set things up. Spa treatments, hanging out at the whirlpool, maybe meeting a wealthy single guy?? (Just kidding!!!)

Sunday -- client conference. Super fancy dinner.

I can't wait for next weekend since I don't really have one this weekend!!!

Me: BW, divorced, now fabulous and happy!

Married: 11 years, no kids

Character is destiny

Posts: 4497 | Registered: Dec 2011
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Default  Posted: 6:19 PM, September 6th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

GDM and I are off to Brimfield tomorrow. We love antiquing.


FBS: Married 20 years, 2 daughters 27 and 24. Divorced by the grace of GOD.
D-Days: 2/23/93; 10/11/97; 3/5/03
Ex & OW Broke up 12-10
"An erection does not count as personal growth."

Posts: 31340 | Registered: Apr 2003 | From: Massachusetts
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Default  Posted: 6:30 PM, September 6th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

No plans at all for the weekend, other than Sunday's Steeler game.

Laundry and grass will probably consume the free time.

You can stuff your sorries in a sack, mister. -George Costanza
There is a special place in hell for women who don't help other women. - Madeleine Albright

Posts: 9177 | Registered: Feb 2009 | From: Western PA
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Default  Posted: 6:34 PM, September 6th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I just got back from NYC and the US Open tennis tournament with my daughter surrounding by thousands of people every day. I will be content to be in my introvert bubble and out of the sun for a long time now.

Will be watching the men's semifinals and final this weekend.

Me: BS 56
Son: 30 years old
Daughter: 28 years old
Divorced 4/10/08
XH passed away 6/24/16

Posts: 7542 | Registered: Apr 2006
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Default  Posted: 7:04 PM, September 6th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Tonight - staying in and painting my kitchen - if I get the motivation to do it. I'm about half-way done and it looks great. Second half involves moving the refrigerator and stove. Not looking forward to that.

Tomorrow - probably painting the kitchen because I really don't think I have the motivation to do it tonight!

Tomorrow night - girls' night out with my roller derby girls. Really looking forward to good food, drinks, and conversation. Might try to work up the courage to go a little early and have a drink at the bar by myself. Eeek, haven't done that one yet, but it is on my single girl bucket list.

Sunday - laundry, cleaning and derby practice

Sometimes you have to forget what you want and remember what you deserve.

Posts: 1752 | Registered: Apr 2008 | From: East Coast
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Default  Posted: 7:15 PM, September 6th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Been out of town for work the last couple of days - just got home an hour ago - exhausted so just going to chill with a glass of wine.

Tomorrow - hit the gym, clean house, do some office work at home. Maybe have dinner with girlfriends.

Sunday - who knows?

Me: BW-46
Him: XWH-46

Status: D 2011
Remarried to a kind and wonderful man - 2017

Above all, be the heroine, not the victim. - Nora Ephron

It is our choices...that show what we truly are, far more than our abilities.
- J. K.

Posts: 5292 | Registered: Mar 2011
Sad in AZ
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Default  Posted: 8:43 PM, September 6th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

No plans, but I went to a local venue tonight to listen to an acoustic bad play, and they were really good. And I had a couple of beers purchased for me, so... Yeah; I'm that shallow.

You are important and you matter. Your feelings matter. Your voice matters. Your story matters. Your life matters. Always.

Me: FBS (no longer betrayed nor a spouse)-62
Him: WXH-62
D-day: 2007 (two years before finding SI)
S: 6/2010; D: 3/2011

Posts: 25302 | Registered: Jun 2009 | From: Arizona
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Default  Posted: 9:03 PM, September 6th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Trying to recover from the obligatory start of the school year cold. Both Teslet and I have it.

Have to get up very, very early tomorrow morning to drive my CC girls to a big meet...when I get back it is Teslet chill out time plus paper grading.

Sunday morning is a 20 mile run (5 weeks till fall marathon). And I have to get started on this week's coursework for my graduate class. And then it is more chill out time with Teslet.

I have a feeling this weekend is going to fly by.

"Thou art the son and heir of a mongrel bitch." --King Lear

Posts: 4962 | Registered: Jan 2012
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Default  Posted: 9:16 PM, September 6th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Tonight: friend's birthday party at my favorite local brewery. I'm the DD. Oh well.

Tomorrow: getting up really early to watch my step brother's first college football game on TV. They yanked his redshirt this week and he thinks he might be in for a few snaps. After that, I might take my dogs out for a short hike and take a nap.

Sunday: cleaning around the house, replacing the leaky transmission cooler line on my Jeep and changing out all of the fluids, pulling my motorcycle apart and replacing the seal behind the stator and hopefully going for a ride.

Posts: 2980 | Registered: Sep 2012 | From: Baja Arizona
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Default  Posted: 10:22 PM, September 6th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Tonight was movie night with the kids, but we're all tired, so it was sort of cranky movie night.

Tomorrow, we go visit with my parents, hit the farmers' market, and there's definitely a pumpkin spice latte in my plans...

Sunday: crock pot, vacuuming, grocery shopping, maybe squeeze in a walk with the kids, schoolwork.

FBS; now happily liberated!
Two DS and One DD
It matters not how strait the gate,/How charged with punishments the scroll./I am the master of my fate:/I am the captain of my soul.--"Invictus," William Ernest Henley

Posts: 4079 | Registered: Oct 2011
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Default  Posted: 11:49 AM, September 7th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Last night I caught up on all my TV shows, today was a vet visit, and pack for my trip and tomorrow I fly to Mexico City where I'll be staying for the rest of month!

Posts: 3446 | Registered: Dec 2008 | From: Mexico
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