Was doing the 180 quite well. Mostly NC too. Only answer by email or text when it is official...like separation issues, or financial issues.
Sometimes he would reach...you know, "duh, did I get paid yet?" crap.
Last night he called instead of replying in emails. This is just his way to try and see what I'm thinking and feeling.
Anyway, he starts off telling me that he can't afford his truck because his SUV costs so much. Yeah, my problem how?
In the legal separation it states he will take the truck. He says he called the bank and blah blah blah.
Then proceeds to go on to tell me that I didn't have to put "adultery" as my reason for separation. Duh, yes I did, we are in covenant marriage and the court won't grant me anything unless I have one or more of the eight legal reasons to file for D or LS.
Then starts telling me how the affair was my fault because of all the YEARS of emotional abuse. Seriously????
OMG, if anybody was emotionally abused, it was me, and I'm not crying and whining. We fought, period. He tried to fight dirty, and he tried to use his brain. Well, I fight dirtier (verbal only) when attacked, and I'm 10X smarter than he is when we are angry.
He went on and on with how I'm ruining his chances at employment and it may even jeopardize his security clearnace. Now let me explain. I put a gun to his head and made him stick his dick inside Shrek the Slut. Oh, and I'm still putting the gun to his head and making him still remain involved with her.
Yeah, I told him this shit, and then I told him that he made those stupid choices, he is still making the stupid choices now, and I'M the one ruining HIM!
Anybody, please please please tell me what the hell is he trying to do besides play these stupid mind games.
I am NC and 180. For now on no more calls answered, and he can deal with my attorney at this point. Let him try and argue with her. She will crucify him.
Any advice on why he is now doing this crap. I don't get it, he left me for her. What the hell?????