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Topic: we are staying together, but three years later

dontknow72
♀ 35772
Member # 35772

Posted: 11:24 PM, September 6th (Friday), 2013

I can only have sex with him if I drink. I hate that I will never ever have a normal sex life. I hate sex with him. I fake liking it and I have to drink to even do it. :(

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him-wh
dday- Sept 11, 2010

Posts: 113 | Registered: Jun 2012

Morhurt
♀ 40166
Member # 40166

Posted: 1:56 AM, September 7th (Saturday), 2013

Tell him. You need to be honest.

Me: BS
Him: FWS
M: 15 years
4 lovely daughters
Working to rebuild.

Posts: 1127 | Registered: Aug 2013 | From: Canada

whatnow8
♀ 36576
Member # 36576

Posted: 9:50 AM, September 7th (Saturday), 2013

((dontknow72)) I'm so sorry for what you are going thru, I can relate a lot. It sucks when you are so far out and still having these issues.

wtf?? How insane does your life have to get that you want to polygraph your freaking HUSBAND. ~ OldCow18

It's hard to make a decision when you're too tired to hold on and too in love to let go. ~ unknown

Posts: 178 | Registered: Aug 2012 | From: midwest

Mousse242
♀ 6330
Member # 6330

Posted: 10:30 AM, September 7th (Saturday), 2013

Why are you staying? Are you still in counseling? You do need to talk to him about this.

Posts: 5485 | Registered: Jan 2005 | From: Chicago

petite71
♀ 36475
Member # 36475

Posted: 10:37 AM, September 7th (Saturday), 2013

I'm so sorry you're feeling this way 3 years out

Sometimes I fake it,but most of the times I enjoy it. But I faked it sometimes before I found out about the A.

You really need to tell him & keep open communication between you 2.....this is a must.
(((HUGS)))

1st DD 03/24/2012 2nd DD 07/13/2012 TT A. in 2002 same girl when we were dating.
Status:Getting Stronger...we can get through this & are healing together
BS(me):41
WS(Husband):40
LTA 10 yrs EA/PA 9 times. friends with benefits.
Us..Together 12 yr

Posts: 126 | Registered: Aug 2012 | From: USA

Topic Posts: 5

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