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I am triggering and very disappointed

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gonogo1 posted 9/7/2013 16:27 PM

Our 23 Anniversary -19 years together separated 4 yrs . FWH spent a large portion of the day at his mom 's home. Doing this and that stuff he put off forever . His mom not living there . I am angry . We are supposed to go out to supper and he is due back soon . Do I tell him I am angry or just suck it up . Input please

SisterMilkshake posted 9/7/2013 16:34 PM

I am sorry you are triggering. (((gonogo1)))

Did you tell your FWH what your expectations for the day were? Did he think that the supper was your anniversary celebration?

I would do this often pre d-day. I would expect FWH to know what I expected for any kind of special day. I have since realized I need to spell it out for him or at least discuss with him what he would want to do on our anniversary and what I expect or want to do.

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