My wh and I were actively divorcing for a year, then separated but 'working' on things for 2 years. Started living together again last year.
He's gone from appreciative that I'd help him & consider R to the jerk he used to be.
Our big fight now is over homeschooling- during the A, my wh was manic, and abusing prescription drugs his Ow helped him get. They used together.
Wh was fired from 2 jobs and ended up moving to an area with crummy schools to get a job. After having our kids in the crummy school system last year, I decided to homeschool. Wh offered no alternative, and has known about this for months.
Today he told me that I was horrible for homeschooling, and that he would do everything to make my life more difficult.
Something sort of snapped. Maybe its the fact that, lol, I do everything and hold his butt together. He is going to make my life harder... Well, the way to do that would be to stick around. He's dead weight. I just don't want to try anymore. I don't care.
I want out. I want to meet someone else. Maybe I needed this time to disassociate from the marriage? But I'm distancing myself from him and our marriage. Which really reminds me of HIS behavior the year leading up to his affair.
[This message edited by Gottagetthrough at 8:03 PM, September 7th (Saturday)]