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User Topic: Should I call the Police?
Thelastknight
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Default  Posted: 8:35 PM, September 7th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

My xWW came over this morning to drop off gear for the kids game. My son wanted to call his mom from my phone and I said no! Last week xWW OM hubby called the cops and reported me on telephonic Harassment. Which is a bunch of BS. I have all the txt messages saved not one has anything negative. Its just a way to show the Judge im a bad guy same as the last time. However, while she was at the house I said to her that the unintended consequence of reporting telephonic harassment is that the kids can no longer use my phone to call her, because it going to leave a footprint that I called her #. Instantly she gets pissed and suggest that they can call anytime. I slowly close the door on her. Then she kicks my Door in! and summons the kids outside. What do you think she will get charged with?


"Pain is weakness leaving the body"

Reformed BS 39 xWW 34
Two kids 5 and 2


Posts: 952 | Registered: Dec 2008 | From: NW
homewrecked2011
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Default  Posted: 8:46 PM, September 7th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Yes, please call them out so you can have a report.

My XWH actually called the police because we were not answering the phone when he called.

This is very very important. It helped me in my divorce case when XWH put a hole in our back door.

It shows her temper, etc. They may only go and talk to her but get them out there to make a report!!!!!!

Also, i promised my children there would be no more drama EVER at our home. I had to call police 1 last time on him, called his parents, then it stopped.

Call the police. NOW


Keep Calm and Happy On!

me BS 52
him - 46
married 15 years DIVORCED 10 31 12
children - ds15 ds12
d-day 12-19-11
I gave a 24hour ultimatum then went to attorney next day
Divorce filed


Posts: 2328 | Registered: Jan 2012
Thelastknight
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Default  Posted: 8:50 PM, September 7th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Im usually the passive one. However I am so tired of dealing with her shit all the time.


"Pain is weakness leaving the body"

Reformed BS 39 xWW 34
Two kids 5 and 2


Posts: 952 | Registered: Dec 2008 | From: NW
5454real
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Default  Posted: 8:53 PM, September 7th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Call them now! At the least, you'll get the report and have her pay for the door.

If the kids witnessed this, talk to your lawyer.


BH 51, WW 42
DS 23(Mine),SD 21,SS 20(Hers),DS 9 Ours, DGS 3, DGD 1 mo
D=Day #1 5/04EA (Rugswept)
D-Day #2 3/10/12, TT til 3/13/12
Married 10yrs
I have no love for a friend who loves in words alone.
― Sophocles, Antigone

Posts: 3174 | Registered: Nov 2012 | From: midwest
ArkLaMiss
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Default  Posted: 8:54 PM, September 7th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Call NOW.


Just HOW stupid do you think I am, exactly?

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Lyonesse
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Default  Posted: 8:54 PM, September 7th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I have no idea what or if they will charge her (disorderly conduct?), but given that they have already falsely reported you for harassment by phone, I would definitely call the police so there is documentation of her very real harassment. It also might be good for the judge to see that she behaved violently in front of your children.

I do think you need to figure out a way for the kids to contact her when they want to maybe exWW can get a cheap TracFone for them to use when away from her?


Me: BS, 40's.

Posts: 1802 | Registered: Jul 2011 | From: West Coast
EasyDoesIt
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Default  Posted: 9:12 PM, September 7th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Good gracious. She's sick.


Anything less than full disclosure and total transparency is pure bullshit. WARNING! No emotional pollution allowed.

Posts: 3698 | Registered: Sep 2010 | From: Georgia
Thelastknight
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Default  Posted: 9:12 PM, September 7th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

My kids have always had unrestricted access to my phone to call mom.


Today I found a term that fits her perfectly. Malicious Mother Syndrome. Has anyone heard of this before? Fits her MO to a T


"Pain is weakness leaving the body"

Reformed BS 39 xWW 34
Two kids 5 and 2


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nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 9:14 PM, September 7th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Did you call, TLK? I sincerely hope you will.

If you don't, I am afraid she will continue to escalate.


You can call me NIK

"Keep your face always toward the sunshine - and shadows will fall behind you."
-Walt Whitman


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SBB
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Default  Posted: 9:27 PM, September 7th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Definitely call the police and file a report.

That is not normal behaviour. To do that in front of kids and to traumatise them like that?

It will escalate.


I may have reached a point where I'd piss on him if he was on fire.... eventually!!

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nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 1:29 PM, September 8th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Any update, TLK?


You can call me NIK

"Keep your face always toward the sunshine - and shadows will fall behind you."
-Walt Whitman


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Thelastknight
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Default  Posted: 5:13 PM, September 8th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I called them. years of BS is enough. I should have called the police so many other times. Im done with the drama.


"Pain is weakness leaving the body"

Reformed BS 39 xWW 34
Two kids 5 and 2


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Runningaway
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Default  Posted: 6:22 PM, September 8th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

No one deserves to be kept from their children.
Not even idiots.
Buy the kids a cheap pay and talk phone and let them use that at your house.


What doesn't kill us makes us smaller. - Mario

Posts: 270 | Registered: Jan 2011 | From: Canada
Thelastknight
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Default  Posted: 7:13 PM, September 8th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Problem being as that I have a no contact order from the police. I can't call any of the numbers listed. If the kids call they will say it was me.


"Pain is weakness leaving the body"

Reformed BS 39 xWW 34
Two kids 5 and 2


Posts: 952 | Registered: Dec 2008 | From: NW
Thelastknight
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Default  Posted: 9:59 PM, September 8th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

The Sherriff stopped by. He took a report. He was very sympathetic to my situation. Thinks they will charge her with criminal mischief or forced entry into a home!


"Pain is weakness leaving the body"

Reformed BS 39 xWW 34
Two kids 5 and 2


Posts: 952 | Registered: Dec 2008 | From: NW
Kajem
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Default  Posted: 7:13 AM, September 9th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Good! These are the consequences to HER actions.

Don't you buy the kids a phone let her. She is responsible to find a way to have contact with her children, not you. You've been gracious allowing your kids access to your phone in order to contact her, and she has left you no other choice but to restrict their calls to her from your phone .

In order to protect yourself do not take any of her calls. Find a way to have her communicate thru emails, text etc. something that can be printed out , saved, and shown to authorities. If she calls and leaves a voicemail or resorts to sending messages though kids to you. Take the time to confirm in an email what the BM or message was. As well as informing that child said...... Start creating a documented trail of her interactions with you. This will help others to see her for what she is.

Good luck.


I trust you is a better compliment than I love you, because you may not trust the person you love, but you can always love the person you trust. - Unknown
Relationships are like sharing a book, it doesn't work if you're not on the same page.

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