I was wondering if any of you WS have any long term goals you wish accomplish say in the next 5 years? And for BS's, what do you think about your WS's having long term goals for your relationship? How do you feel about future goals?
My husband has said that he doesn't think that far ahead anymore since my A, but is happy to hear that I have some long term goals for us and our relationship.
I ended up having my A 5 months after we got married. So I totally screwed up our marriage in that way. My husband has told me that when I feel like things are right and good between us that he wants me to propose to him.
So my goal is to figure out something nice and propose to him. Not any time soon but within the next 3 1/2 years roughly. Our son by that time will be around 3 years old and able to listen better and our daughter will also be older. I want to propose to him and plan a small wedding and remarry my best friend. This time to do it right and not screw things up.
There isn't really a point to this, I just wanted to share and hear other opinions.