I think we talked about this 4 or 5 days ago. My IC suggested we take a short break from each other and we've done that (just a few days) and then had dinner last night with our boys. Afterward I asked him if he was still NC, he said yes. And I asked him how he was going to prove that. He mentioned the phone software again and that he would look into it.
How long should I be waiting for these things? I am not going to keep asking.
I have already filed for D and the ball is in his court.
[This message edited by myperfectlife at 3:02 PM, September 8th (Sunday)]
What has he been doing to show that he wants R? I think you need to look at the total package and if he's not doing the work SOMEWHERE for R then I don't think you should give any more time for these things. I think it just proves that he's not in R. I'm sorry if that's hard to hear but he does have to prove himself. *hugs*
I know it seems like they should be able to see the obvious things but they don't, it sucks.
((( and strength ))))
If its that important to him, he will make it happen and be proud to show that off to you. He should rejoice each time you check on him and find out he is telling the truth. If he is hesitant on any of this, he still isn't getting it. IMO
We are done fighting with each other and decide to fight FOR each other.
Other than that...the situation is fluid.
Any other suggestions or advice?
[This message edited by myperfectlife at 5:08 PM, September 8th (Sunday)]