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User Topic: It was so much easier before online dating!!
♀ 36870
Member # 36870
Default  Posted: 3:33 PM, September 8th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Hi all

I may be having a NB, I'm trying to be calm about it and armed myself with the knowledge of a dating book written by a man AND by a woman before embarking on this other than the crazy "will anyone ever want to date me" freakout I had at the beginning of the years where I had a few coffees with a few really "interesting" (varying from hideous to bat shit crazy) people.

Anyway, ahem, this time around I decided I didn't need to speak to EVERYONE who spoke to me and be selective with my dealbreakers and non-negotiables in place

I signed up to Match but it was pretty dead on there, all the same faces from January, and while I had said to myself I would never go on POF again, one day I had this intense feeling I should sign up for it and I did. 2 days later this man emailed me and we emailed a bit, seemed to have a few common interests, so we met up and today I had a 4th date with him - I have seen him once a week so far. He seems like such a nice guy, ticks enough boxes to be good company at least.

Just wanted to share.

D-Day mid 2012
I was the BS
Status: Divorced early 2013

Posts: 439 | Registered: Sep 2012 | From: England
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Member # 5929
Default  Posted: 7:02 PM, September 8th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Things on OLD should pick up soon. It usually gets busy in the fall because people realize it will be cold soon and they want someone to hunker down with for the winter.

12/18/15 found out my now EX boyfriend was trolling CL for underage girls. From the cops. The fun never stops.

Posts: 49560 | Registered: Nov 2004 | From: Minneapolis
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Member # 33488
Default  Posted: 7:43 PM, September 8th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

What is "OLD"?

True remorse isn't followed by a "but".

Posts: 1809 | Registered: Sep 2011 | From: Alberta
♀ 32810
Member # 32810
Default  Posted: 8:44 PM, September 8th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

OLD = OnLine Dating

"You yourself deserve your love and affection as much as anybody in the universe." -Buddha
"Let's face it, life is a crap shoot." -Sad in AZ

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