I may be having a NB, I'm trying to be calm about it and armed myself with the knowledge of a dating book written by a man AND by a woman before embarking on this other than the crazy "will anyone ever want to date me" freakout I had at the beginning of the years where I had a few coffees with a few really "interesting" (varying from hideous to bat shit crazy) people.
Anyway, ahem, this time around I decided I didn't need to speak to EVERYONE who spoke to me and be selective with my dealbreakers and non-negotiables in place
I signed up to Match but it was pretty dead on there, all the same faces from January, and while I had said to myself I would never go on POF again, one day I had this intense feeling I should sign up for it and I did. 2 days later this man emailed me and we emailed a bit, seemed to have a few common interests, so we met up and today I had a 4th date with him - I have seen him once a week so far. He seems like such a nice guy, ticks enough boxes to be good company at least.
Just wanted to share.