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Lovedyoumore posted 9/8/2013 16:00 PM

My friend was telling me about her son's divorce and her DIL "dating" while they were married. She does not know about my H's A. She was shocked because her DIL was being coaxed and pursued by a member of a fairly well known Christian band. I was telling her that AP come from every walk of life and profession.

As a poll, what does the OP in your life do for a living? We will do WS later.

Lovedyoumore posted 9/8/2013 16:01 PM

The OP in our life is/was a divinity school grad mainline denomination minister. Usually youth minister.

musiclovingmom posted 9/8/2013 16:08 PM

OW1 - diner waitress (who claims to be a police officer)
OW2 - service representative for a car dealership
OW3 & 4 - idk, he found them on AFF
OW5 - preschool teacher persuing an elementary education degree

RightTrack posted 9/8/2013 16:08 PM

AP worked part-time, making coffee, answering phones and running errands for an accounting company. She wanted to be able to "devote time to her family" ha ha

Blobette posted 9/8/2013 16:09 PM

Production manager, business school grad

soveryweary posted 9/8/2013 16:20 PM

Main OW - elementary school secretary, now works at a bank.

EA#1- extremely successful business owner ( who sent him pictures of her boobs and a graphic picture of herself on a vibrator)

EA#2- his old work secretary now unemployed

[This message edited by soveryweary at 4:22 PM, September 8th (Sunday)]

Tripletrouble posted 9/8/2013 16:25 PM

Idk, there were about 50. Sometimes I envy those of you who know who the enemy was.

SoAngryAndHurt posted 9/8/2013 16:29 PM

Stay at home mom - mother of 3. Their family goes to church every Sunday together. Its lovely

Lionne posted 9/8/2013 16:32 PM

OW#1 unemployed
OW#2 paralegal turned hooker/porn actress
OW#3 school janitor
OW ETC strippers

quoththeraven1 posted 9/8/2013 16:33 PM

Minister

naivewife posted 9/8/2013 16:36 PM

Essentially unemployed, but was a pharmacologist who was paid by her psychiatrist mother to be her "assistant." Assistant means lay in bed all day popping Cymbalta and have affairs and take advantage in any way possible of her mothers psyc patients.

[This message edited by naivewife at 4:37 PM, September 8th (Sunday)]

sullymeishadomi posted 9/8/2013 16:37 PM

She is an administrative assistant in a large pharmaceutical company (Not one of ours Iif you get my drift. And I just realised the irony that im anti-drug company lol)
At night she tends bar at a place on wh route home. I was told the bar is a skanky place with bad food and bad service. The owners/mgrs are said to be of questionable character. Everytime I have passed it it has had plenty (not a lot) of cars in its parking lot

[This message edited by sullymeishadomi at 4:41 PM, September 8th (Sunday)]

dameia posted 9/8/2013 16:37 PM

OW 1-16 - Whores in Thailand
OW #17 - CoWorker, M at the time although now D. Works in computer security, also ex-service member. She was feeling "insecure" after getting out of the military, obviously fucking my H was going to help with that.

OnAnIsland posted 9/8/2013 16:43 PM

MarriedOW- MBA wielding, international (tech and green sector specialty) business consultant. The international was key to staging serendipitous trips to places near us....

letitout posted 9/8/2013 16:44 PM

Prostitute 1,2,3?

Prostitute 4: a whole year of therapy she was a social worker.

Prostitute 5: A sous chef in a high class restaurant. She sure cooked my H ass for another year.

Chefj9 posted 9/8/2013 16:45 PM

OW #1 Finance Manager at the company he worked for at the time.
OW #2 unemployed skank friend from HS
OW #3 Manager at a large food company over one of the beverage divisions.

standingonmarble posted 9/8/2013 17:01 PM

Physical Therapist and assistant and a nurse.

All walks of life.

jasonguitarboy posted 9/8/2013 17:03 PM

OM #1- guy from her group of friends.

OM #2- My coworker, close friend and spiritual mentor.

OM #3- Former coworker of mine, I got her a job at my shop and then I found a better job. He wanted her to "go for a drive" she said no a couple times then was "curious" enough to go one day. Thus began her one year affair with a man she couldn't even talk to due to language barior.

Exactly what does it take to learn boundaries? Cuz destroying my world obviously wasn't enough.

Zayda1 posted 9/8/2013 17:04 PM

The AP is a mother of 4 and an elementary school teacher.

She also used to teach the marriage courses at her church.

shatteredheart7 posted 9/8/2013 17:09 PM

Skanky whore is a twice divorced single mother of 3 adult kids and 1 young daughter. Her youngest was conceived on the day her last divorce became final, it was how she and her ex celebrated being divorced.
She works from home. Something to do with accounting and her mom got her the job is all I know.It obviously left her with lots of time to devote to my H. She also lives in a house owned by her mother, and drives a car that is about to fall apart. Gotta love when the AP is looking for someone to make their life easier financially.

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