Rommie is driving me crazy. Nothing crazy or dangerous, nothing like that. Nothing sexual, in anyway, there are NO secret fires burning for him by me, and I don't read that from him about me.
However, he reminds me of Xh. Not in a good way. They resemble eachother in height, that is it. They are different in every other way, except how they annoy me.
All those little things in a M that you put up with for so long, thought were so cute in the beginning, ect ect ... Those little things that led to bigger fights ...
They are driving me crazy. Rommie is aloof and completely unaware. To me they seem like simple easy to do things, common sense things.
Like cleaning the dishes. Use the dish soap & scrubbie thing, not warm water and your fingers. I don't have a dishwasher.
When you start laundry finish your laundry. I have finished his laundry more than once so I could do my laundry. My washer smells faintly like mildew.
My house is small, it has very LOW ceilings, tile & hardwood floors. Sound carries. It is not necessary to walk through the house like a neanderthal, at 4am. Closing the doors, cabinets, MICROWAVE does not need to be a show of testosterone.
I realize you are tall. The shower head needs to be adjusted for you. I get that, so I have left it adjusted to hit on the back wall of the shower, I stand almost at said wall to shower. Everytime I get in the shower after him the head has been adjusted further up and now sprays into the far corner of the shower, so when you open the curtain it sprays all over the floor. I have plastic pipes in the walls, they cannot take all the pressure and adjusting, I think I have adjusted it fairly for both of us, more for you.
No I have not said anything to him. I just go behind and redo stuff.
His view on some things have me guessing about a couple things, totally not in an ohhh this guy is so interesting way, but not creepy either. I'm not afraid of him, I'm grossed out, irritated, annoyed and just in awe how aloof he is.
How many times I told when the trash goes out, several. I could ask right now and he would not know. I waited on purpose to see how long it would take him to take the kitchen trash out. He finally did it, yesterday. I think because the next step was placing stuff on the counter, the trash was that full. He did not empty any of the other trash cans in the house though.
His views on dating are HUGE red flags and I wanna tell all these women he is casually dating. Also let them know just how in contact he keeps with several women in his past. A conversation we had one night turned to dating stuff, not us, gag but in general. I just stared at him.
Just struck dumb with the casualness of how he treats this whole dating thing.
OMG .... I was sitting outside smoking ... he came out in shorts no shirt, drenched in sweat, literally still dripping off him. Which sure can be hot, but not for me with him. He is not ugly, stays in shape, but I am ick just ick ... He sits down and starts clipping his toenails, then he clips down this GIANT blister he has on the bottom of his foot. Left all the clippings there swimming in his sweat.
So many of these little annoying things remind me of Xh. The annoying things are different, but the sheer itchy racing I feel is the same. Exasperated, and sooo grrrrr
OMG ... just came out of the bathroom, been in there awhile, did not turn on the exhaust fan, left the door open. I have 1 bathroom. I'm going outside.