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Happened. And the OW still works there too. For me, that's not so much of a problem. We really need the money. But WH admitted to me that it's hard for him to be there. The whole job is very triggery for him. And having her around doesn't help. It's a reminder of A and he's so ashamed and sad. Also, pretty much all of his coworkers know, so every time he talks to OW( he's her supervisor ) some one will make a comment to him about it. I know he brought this on himself, but I love him. And it makes me sad and worried for him. Our R is going so well, but he has a lot of issues to deal with. This work place might set him back. It's too hard to find another job right now or he would just leave.

Ohiocarrie,

There is not too much I can say except that in a way it is a good thing that he is sad.

I wish you and your wh the best and hopefully a new job will come his way.