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openedupmyeyes (original poster member #27871) posted at 2:24 PM on Monday, September 9th, 2013
My h and I go grocery shopping every weekend @ our local store that begins with a K.
We've had this same routine for the las year. We go go early, super early. When the store opens up for business. Its like they opened the store just for us. Anyway,
Most mornings h grabs breakfast for us while I shop. Then meets me in the store,shops,and loads the checkout. We are always friendly with our cashier. She's the same lady checker since we've been shopping there. Yesterday, she said you guys are my favorite couple. You laugh @ his jokes. He lights up when he looks @ you. How long have you been married? H says 35 years, mere newlyweds. With a big smile. I don't deserve her, I work hardevery day to make her glad she's my Mrs. 
I laughed and said he's telling the truth.
We continued on with our errands for the day. But, that exchange stayed with us.
Me:55 BS
Him:55 FWH Trying to make me a believer?
Years married:37
:03-01-10: The day I learned the truth
Kids:Daughters 4 all grown and married.
Reconciliation is hard.
Really freakin' hard.
AFrayedKnot ( member #36622) posted at 2:31 PM on Monday, September 9th, 2013
BS 48fWS 44 (SurprisinglyOkay)DsD DSA whole bunch of shit that got a lot worse before it got better."Knowing is half the battle"
shatteredheart7 ( member #39734) posted at 3:08 PM on Monday, September 9th, 2013
This made me 
I love hearing such positive stories!
Me~40
FWH~46
Married 8yrs
Together 11 1/2
Me~ 3 kids, 21,17,14
Him~no kids
A with a mutual "friend" for 2+yrs
He confessed 9/9/12
A was over 2/12
7/13~ Happier than we have been in yrs!
catlover50 ( member #37154) posted at 3:25 PM on Monday, September 9th, 2013
So happy for you both!
I know some people hate it when people praise their WS, but I like it. People never used to say what a great H I had; now they do, total strangers. Because he is!
Dday -9/23/2012
Reconciled
openedupmyeyes (original poster member #27871) posted at 4:00 PM on Monday, September 9th, 2013
I don't always feel positive about r. So this was a positive for me. Just thought I'd share. She said she could tell we were so in love. She could tell by our body language. Hmmmm.
Me:55 BS
Him:55 FWH Trying to make me a believer?
Years married:37
:03-01-10: The day I learned the truth
Kids:Daughters 4 all grown and married.
Reconciliation is hard.
Really freakin' hard.
SisterMilkshake ( member #30024) posted at 4:39 PM on Monday, September 9th, 2013
Very sweet!
BW (me) & FWH both over half a century; married several decades; children
d-day 3/10; LTA (7 years?)
"Oh, why do my actions have consequences?" ~ Homer Simpson
"She knew my one weakness: That I'm weak." ~ Homer Simpson
SandAway ( member #37775) posted at 4:55 PM on Monday, September 9th, 2013
That is awesome. Thanks for sharing. 
fWW
BH Tred
M 19yrs
DDay Nov. 2011
Guns don't kill people; Affairs kill people
Flatlined123 ( member #35862) posted at 6:08 PM on Monday, September 9th, 2013
That's so sweet. Those kinds of things just make you feel good.
Me: BS H: WS4 kids DD #1 7-11-08DD#2 8-21-09 same OW, A never ended.Started R in 12-09"If what doesn't kill you makes you stronger, I should be able to bench press a Buick."
Twentyplus ( member #39593) posted at 6:13 PM on Monday, September 9th, 2013
"But we must supply our own light." - Stanley Kubrick
soconfusednow ( member #40078) posted at 7:14 PM on Monday, September 9th, 2013
Isn't that so wonderful!
Someone took a picture of my husband & I, When I saw it I couldn't believe the way he was looking at me. I felt so loved!
D-Day January 2013
prior EA in the 90's
me 50's WH 50's
NC-several, last broken NC 7/2013 (?)
Married 30+ years, 2 kids
Want to believe it's over, but is it really? Will I ever trust again?
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