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 hexed (original poster member #19258) posted at 4:56 AM on Tuesday, September 10th, 2013

TG has been a home for a couple days after being gone for a month. Today was his first day back in his office. We've had a great couple days together. We also had his kids this weekend

Tonight he just sort of fizzled out. He's quiet and just needing some alone time. No doubt due to the time change, quieter house after the kids went back to their mom's house ect.

I understand. I'm doing other things. He came in and gave me a hug and kiss. That's all I need to know that he's OK. He knows that's what I need.

Its so wonderful to be with someone who can do that. My X could never step outside himself to offer up the smallest gesture of love or reassurance if he was having a down day.

Damn healthy and functional is nice.

But that's just a lot of water
Underneath a bridge I burned
And there's no use in backtracking
Around corners I have turned

“Many of us crucify ourselves between two thieves - regret for the past and fear of the future.” -foulton oursler

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veelop5 ( member #11089) posted at 12:31 PM on Tuesday, September 10th, 2013

Happy for you! Can't wait for that right person to enter my life:-)

ME-40
XH-DOESN'T MATTER ANYMORE
3 beautiful boys (21,20 & 17)
Update: Moved in to my own apartment 8/7/2012
10/27/2014-Met a wonderful man 9months ago
Divorce final 3/27/2013

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jo2love ( member #31528) posted at 1:20 PM on Tuesday, September 10th, 2013

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Ann124 ( member #29289) posted at 2:14 PM on Tuesday, September 10th, 2013

Very Nice!

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SoHappyNow ( member #8923) posted at 6:15 PM on Tuesday, September 10th, 2013

Two thumbs up for the emotionally mature guys.....TG (and my guy!)

In the depths of winter I finally learned there was in me an invincible summer..Albert Camus--------73 now. Dday #1 was 11/11/05 ***Used to be hit-by-a-train*** Widowed, then VERY happily remarried 2/14/14

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nutmegkitty ( member #33882) posted at 8:17 PM on Tuesday, September 10th, 2013

Me - happy!
2 DDs

Very happily divorced from an NPD since 2013.

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MyVoice ( member #35695) posted at 9:05 PM on Tuesday, September 10th, 2013

Me:BW 46, Him:WH 50
two kids DD14 and DS17
Married 26 years
OW 28, crew member (he was the ships captain)
"People are formed by their actions, not their ideals" unknown

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Williesmom ( member #22870) posted at 1:45 AM on Wednesday, September 11th, 2013

So awesome.

You can stuff your sorries in a sack, mister. -George Costanza
There is a special place in hell for women who don't help other women. - Madeleine Albright

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nowiknow23 ( member #33226) posted at 2:24 AM on Wednesday, September 11th, 2013

You can call me NIK

And never grow a wishbone, daughter, where your backbone ought to be.
― Sarah McMane

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