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Blackhair posted 9/10/2013 00:03 AM

After months of struggle in the dark hell. Finally I got some strength back and can think straight and talk to him calmly!

I am trying so hard to keep myself together and be "amicable", maybe because we have kids, we just can not cut and run, or maybe i still love the stupid guy or i am not type if person to start a nasty fight, anyways finally we reached an agreement about pretty much everything and the SE agreement should be done this week!

But this morning he called and cried and said he still loves me, he did wrong, but he never felt anyone loves him crazy like this girl, he still want to keep the good terms with me and if things not working with them he said he will come back to me!

I am not your backup plan! So my whole day was messed up again! At this point I am not sure if I still want him back, I do not know what to think at this point, it definitely won't stop me countinue finish the separation agreement for sure, he is very scared of losing me now, same time he won't stop talking to her!

The shit is hard! Please get the stuff done, I do not want to hear he now changes his mind now!

I amm sooooo fed up with the shit he is creating. I want to get it done and move on!

newlysingle posted 9/10/2013 00:10 AM

He is a giant cake eater. Yeah, you're supposed to just put your life on hold while he takes time to decide what he wants in life. The hell with that. You're right, you are NOT a back up plan.

I only wish that the Gnat would dare and say something like this to me. I'd have a field day with it.

GabyBaby posted 9/10/2013 00:16 AM

and if things not working with them he said he will come back to me

^^This is what you need to focus on.
Everything else he said to you is blah, blah, blah.
He is TELLING you that you are the backup plan.

You deserve better.
Your kids deserve better.

momentintime posted 9/10/2013 01:08 AM

Tell him there is no option for him to come back to you, that window had been shut, and nailed down, especially if it doesn't workout with her. The gall of that statement is so offensive.

Random thoughts posted 9/10/2013 06:33 AM

If he was scared of losing you now, he would stop doing what he's doing.

Continue with the divorce and let him have his little golddigger serves him right to get hose for his $$.

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