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User Topic: Why can't I just not care
Mochagurl
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Member # 14660
Default  Posted: 1:43 AM, September 10th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

WH was out of town for job interview for a few weeks. He got home late tonight. We talked a bit about the job and all.

Next I asked him where things stood with him and OW. He had lead me to believe it was pretty much over. Well I basically got no answer from him.

He sat there reading and really said nothing. I get a little more direct-I would like some answers. He says since I had a glass of wine I am irrational.

I would like to know if he is still seeing her and if he is, I would like him to go move in with her. I have no where else to go. I would like to come home after work and not see my husband getting ready for a date.

How can I get out of this hell? I know I deserve better.


Me: BS-55
Him: WS-55
Married: 35 years
DD 36, DD 26, DS 22, DD 19
You can't start the next chapter of your life if you keep re-reading the last one.

Posts: 245 | Registered: May 2007 | From: Ohio
jo2love
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Member # 31528
Default  Posted: 6:08 AM, September 10th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((Mocha)))

He is telling you who he is through his words/actions and lack there of. Please 180. Take the strength it gives you. You deserve to be respected, loved, and happy.


Posts: 36776 | Registered: Mar 2011
Expect Delays
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Member # 23981
Default  Posted: 8:47 AM, September 10th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm sorry you are hurting, Mochagurl. I don't know your story well, but I do know that you are right and you do deserve better. You will have to choose, though, how to get "better," because he is not going to choose better for you. Please dig deep and mine your inner strength. You can live - and live better - without him.


A great name for a new country song: If I'd Shot You Sooner, I'd Be Out of Jail By Now.

Posts: 710 | Registered: May 2009
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