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MJane posted 9/10/2013 07:52 AM

From reading your kind and very forgiving posts I know a lot of you are very good people - I can't help but think about what I'd like to do to the OW. Not that I'd ever put those thoughts into actions but I feel so angry about how she broke it to me and how she threw in my face touching my baby and being in my home. My personal favorite is today's thought - that I sign her up to multiple dirty phone lines online - her online picture has her pouting to camera so I wouldn't even have to worry about that one - and she kindly gave me her mobile to "talk things through as you should know everything". Liked the idea of her finding herself sleep deprived in the little hours of picking up the phone at work & having to deal with that.....Thought I'd share as i imagine many of you have such thoughts (in reality I want her out of my life so I won't do anything)

NeverAgain2013 posted 9/10/2013 07:56 AM

I see nothing wrong with being kind enough and efficient enough to help out her dating life by placing an ad on Craigslist for her in the "Casual Encounters" section.

Her happiness will be enough thanks, I'm sure.

7yrsflushed posted 9/10/2013 07:58 AM

Hey it's okay to vent, my mental thoughts after Dday on those late sleepless nights often drifted towards power tools, trash bags, a suit case, and a bowling ball. Luckily I am pretty sure I was in a half dazed non-sleeping lucid dream so no actions were ever taken.

The good news is eventually these things take care of themselves especially the part about you caring. Takes longer for some than others but it gets better.

ReunitePangea posted 9/10/2013 08:00 AM

LOL MJane!!!

Even though I am in R, I still have revenge thoughts for OM. He got away with very little consequences for his actions. He is now married - my latest thought is to send him a package with a blow-up doll (ring on her finger of course) with a note telling him to use this instead if he wants to cheat with a married woman. I have many, many more ideas.

MJane posted 9/10/2013 08:01 AM

Like that idea too....

brokengrandma52 posted 9/10/2013 08:01 AM

What a great idea. My idea was to go to bike week and leave cards advertising blow jobs for bikers....cheap. Of course it would have her phone number on it. I fear getting caught...so it was a good fantasy?