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User Topic: Revenge - thoughts aplenty but not actions
♀ 40571
Member # 40571
Default  Posted: 7:52 AM, September 10th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

From reading your kind and very forgiving posts I know a lot of you are very good people - I can't help but think about what I'd like to do to the OW. Not that I'd ever put those thoughts into actions but I feel so angry about how she broke it to me and how she threw in my face touching my baby and being in my home. My personal favorite is today's thought - that I sign her up to multiple dirty phone lines online - her online picture has her pouting to camera so I wouldn't even have to worry about that one - and she kindly gave me her mobile to "talk things through as you should know everything". Liked the idea of her finding herself sleep deprived in the little hours of picking up the phone at work & having to deal with that.....Thought I'd share as i imagine many of you have such thoughts (in reality I want her out of my life so I won't do anything)

Posts: 265 | Registered: Sep 2013
♀ 38121
Member # 38121
Default  Posted: 7:56 AM, September 10th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I see nothing wrong with being kind enough and efficient enough to help out her dating life by placing an ad on Craigslist for her in the "Casual Encounters" section.

Her happiness will be enough thanks, I'm sure.

Be careful - that 'knight in shining armor' may very well be nothing more than an assclown wrapped in tin foil.
ME: 50+ years old and cute as a button :-)
Ex-WBF: Just a lying, cheating, gravy-sucking pig - and I left him in 2012.

Posts: 6327 | Registered: Jan 2013 | From: USA
♂ 32258
Member # 32258
Default  Posted: 7:58 AM, September 10th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Hey it's okay to vent, my mental thoughts after Dday on those late sleepless nights often drifted towards power tools, trash bags, a suit case, and a bowling ball. Luckily I am pretty sure I was in a half dazed non-sleeping lucid dream so no actions were ever taken.

The good news is eventually these things take care of themselves especially the part about you caring. Takes longer for some than others but it gets better.

D-day 5/24/11
BH = Me
2 children
The first true sense of calm I felt in YEARS was when I filed for D...
Divorced 9/2/14 and loving life!

Posts: 2224 | Registered: May 2011 | From: VA
♂ 37529
Member # 37529
Default  Posted: 8:00 AM, September 10th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

LOL MJane!!!

Even though I am in R, I still have revenge thoughts for OM. He got away with very little consequences for his actions. He is now married - my latest thought is to send him a package with a blow-up doll (ring on her finger of course) with a note telling him to use this instead if he wants to cheat with a married woman. I have many, many more ideas.

BS - Me 38
WS - Wife 39
D-Day - Oct 12
Married 10 years
OM1 - 12-year LTA
OM2 - 9 month A turned into open relationship with couple for another 1 1/2 years

Posts: 489 | Registered: Nov 2012
♀ 40571
Member # 40571
Happy  Posted: 8:01 AM, September 10th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Like that idea too....

Posts: 265 | Registered: Sep 2013
♀ 31705
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Default  Posted: 8:01 AM, September 10th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

What a great idea. My idea was to go to bike week and leave cards advertising blow jobs for Of course it would have her phone number on it. I fear getting it was a good fantasy?

Me BS, in a better place then before,
Him FWS ex jackass, trying to be the best husband in the world
We are recovered.....almost!
Dday July 2010
Married 45 years at DD..50 years Aug 2013, now almost 53 years!

Posts: 152 | Registered: Mar 2011 | From: Fl part of the year
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