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You cannot be replaced - World Suicide Prevention Day

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 nowiknow23 (original poster member #33226) posted at 3:26 PM on Tuesday, September 10th, 2013

Today is World Suicide Prevention Day. Suicide has touched my life several times, and each of the lives that was lost weighs on my heart every day.

All of us have experienced pain, loss, depression, and hopelessness at one point or another. Many SI members are in those places now. It can be overwhelming and seem relentless.

If you are feeling any of those things, please reach out. Please. There is no shame in what you are feeling. There is support for you. There is relief for you. People DO care.

Reach out to family, friends, your doctor, your counselor. Post on SI or contact a suicide prevention resource for help.

Suicide Prevention Lifeline (US):

1-800-273-8255

http://www.suicidepreventionlifeline.org/

Canadian Mental Health Association:

http://www.cmha.ca/mental-health/understanding-mental-illness/suicide/

Befrienders Worldwide:

http://www.befrienders.org/

Please stay with us. You cannot be replaced.

You can call me NIK

And never grow a wishbone, daughter, where your backbone ought to be.
― Sarah McMane

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SisterMilkshake ( member #30024) posted at 3:45 PM on Tuesday, September 10th, 2013

Very true, nik. I just posted about World Suicide Prevention Day on my FB page.

Thanks, nik, it is an important message.

BW (me) & FWH both over half a century; married several decades; children
d-day 3/10; LTA (7 years?)

"Oh, why do my actions have consequences?" ~ Homer Simpson
"She knew my one weakness: That I'm weak." ~ Homer Simpson

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TxsT ( member #39996) posted at 3:47 PM on Tuesday, September 10th, 2013

Wonderful and very thoughtful and thought provoking post....I will continue to bump this today to make sure everyone reads it.

T

Me: BS 50
Hubby: WH 53
Together: 32 years
Married: 25 years 09/10/2013
2 boys: 23&21
Dday: 09/11/2012
A length: 4+ years (yes years)
status: Ongoing Reconciliation :o)

Through thick and thin we will survive but he gets only one shot at it!

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LosferWords ( member #30369) posted at 3:48 PM on Tuesday, September 10th, 2013

Thanks for putting this out here, NIK. Reaching out for help is one of the best things I ever did for myself.

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Jrazz ( member #31349) posted at 7:48 PM on Tuesday, September 10th, 2013

Great post, NIK.

"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." - Deeply Scared's mom

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tired girl ( member #28053) posted at 9:22 PM on Tuesday, September 10th, 2013

Thank you for letting me know about this.

Me 47 Him 47 Hardlessons
DS 27,25,23
D Day's becoming less important as time moves on.
"No one can make you feel inferior without your consent." Eleanor Roosevelt
My bad for trying to locate remorse on your morality map. OITNB

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crazyblindsided ( member #35215) posted at 9:46 PM on Tuesday, September 10th, 2013

Thank you for posting this. I remember my attempt at suicide such a scary place. It is wonderful there are programs and phone numbers for people in need of the help.

fBS/fWS(me):52 Mad-hattered after DD (2008)
XWS:55 Serial Cheater, Diagnosed NPD
DD(22) DS(19)
XWS cheated the entire M spanning 19 years
Discovered D-Days 2006,2008,2012, False R 2014
Separated 9/2019; Divorced 8/2024

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wifehad5 ( Administrator #15162) posted at 10:10 PM on Tuesday, September 10th, 2013

Thank you for posting this.

FBH - 52 FWW - 53 (BrokenRoad)2 kids 17 & 22The people you do your life with shape the life you live

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