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User Topic: You cannot be replaced - World Suicide Prevention Day
nowiknow23
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Member # 33226
Default  Posted: 9:26 AM, September 10th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Today is World Suicide Prevention Day. Suicide has touched my life several times, and each of the lives that was lost weighs on my heart every day.

All of us have experienced pain, loss, depression, and hopelessness at one point or another. Many SI members are in those places now. It can be overwhelming and seem relentless.

If you are feeling any of those things, please reach out. Please. There is no shame in what you are feeling. There is support for you. There is relief for you. People DO care.

Reach out to family, friends, your doctor, your counselor. Post on SI or contact a suicide prevention resource for help.

Suicide Prevention Lifeline (US):
1-800-273-8255
http://www.suicidepreventionlifeline.org/

Canadian Mental Health Association:
http://www.cmha.ca/mental-health/understanding-mental-illness/suicide/

Befrienders Worldwide:
http://www.befrienders.org/

Please stay with us. You cannot be replaced.


You can call me NIK

"Keep your face always toward the sunshine - and shadows will fall behind you."
-Walt Whitman


Posts: 26516 | Registered: Aug 2011
SisterMilkshake
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Member # 30024
Default  Posted: 9:45 AM, September 10th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Very true, nik. I just posted about World Suicide Prevention Day on my FB page.

Thanks, nik, it is an important message.


BW (me) 50ish FWH 50ish
Married 34 years, 3 children
d-day 3/10 LTA (4 yrs./fucking & flirting)

"Oh, why do my actions have consequences?" ~ Homer Simpson
"She knew my one weakness: That I'm weak!" ~ Homer Simpson


Posts: 10087 | Registered: Nov 2010 | From: The Great White North USA
TxsT
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Member # 39996
Default  Posted: 9:47 AM, September 10th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Wonderful and very thoughtful and thought provoking post....I will continue to bump this today to make sure everyone reads it.

T


Me: BS 50
Hubby: WH 53
Together: 32 years
Married: 25 years 09/10/2013
2 boys: 23&21
Dday: 09/11/2012
A length: 4+ years (yes years)
status: Ongoing Reconciliation :o)

Through thick and thin we will survive but he gets only one shot at it!


Posts: 605 | Registered: Jul 2013 | From: CDN
LosferWords
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Member # 30369
Default  Posted: 9:48 AM, September 10th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thanks for putting this out here, NIK. Reaching out for help is one of the best things I ever did for myself.


Why don't you just say it? I'm the worst toy-maker in the world. I'm a Cotton-Headed Ninnymuggins!

Posts: 8276 | Registered: Dec 2010
Jrazz
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Default  Posted: 1:48 PM, September 10th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Great post, NIK.


"Welcome the rawness of vulnerability as an opportunity to open." - Pema Chodron

Me: BW 35
Crazz: WH 33
Daughter: 4.5 Going on 16


Posts: 18698 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: California
tired girl
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Default  Posted: 3:22 PM, September 10th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thank you for letting me know about this.


Me45 Him 45 Hardlessons DS 25,23,20
D Day 1/18/10 his 3/8/2012 mine
"No one can make you feel inferior without your consent." Eleanor Roosevelt

Posts: 5247 | Registered: Mar 2010 | From: az
crazyblindsided
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Default  Posted: 3:46 PM, September 10th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thank you for posting this. I remember my attempt at suicide such a scary place. It is wonderful there are programs and phone numbers for people in need of the help.


BS/FWS (me):40 Madhatter
WS/BS:42 Serial Cheater
Together 18 years, Married 13
DD(10) DS(7)
DDay(s) 5/08, 5/09, 3/30/12
Final Dday 7/11/14 Affair never ended

Posts: 2266 | Registered: Apr 2012 | From: California
wifehad5
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Default  Posted: 4:10 PM, September 10th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thank you for posting this.


FBH - 42
FWW - 43 (BrokenRoad)
2 kids 7&12

The people you do your life with shape the life you live


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