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Topic: You cannot be replaced - World Suicide Prevention Day

nowiknow23
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Member # 33226

Posted: 9:26 AM, September 10th (Tuesday), 2013

Today is World Suicide Prevention Day. Suicide has touched my life several times, and each of the lives that was lost weighs on my heart every day.

All of us have experienced pain, loss, depression, and hopelessness at one point or another. Many SI members are in those places now. It can be overwhelming and seem relentless.

If you are feeling any of those things, please reach out. Please. There is no shame in what you are feeling. There is support for you. There is relief for you. People DO care.

Reach out to family, friends, your doctor, your counselor. Post on SI or contact a suicide prevention resource for help.

Suicide Prevention Lifeline (US):
1-800-273-8255
http://www.suicidepreventionlifeline.org/

Canadian Mental Health Association:
http://www.cmha.ca/mental-health/understanding-mental-illness/suicide/

Befrienders Worldwide:
http://www.befrienders.org/

Please stay with us. You cannot be replaced.

You can call me NIK

“The most difficult times for many of us are the ones we give ourselves.”
― Pema Chödrön

Posts: 28353 | Registered: Aug 2011

SisterMilkshake
♀ 30024
Member # 30024

Posted: 9:45 AM, September 10th (Tuesday), 2013

Very true, nik. I just posted about World Suicide Prevention Day on my FB page.

Thanks, nik, it is an important message.

BW (me) 50ish FWH 50ish
Married 34 years, 3 children
d-day 3/10 LTA (4 yrs./fucking & flirting)

"Oh, why do my actions have consequences?" ~ Homer Simpson
"She knew my one weakness: That I'm weak!" ~ Homer Simpson

Posts: 10508 | Registered: Nov 2010 | From: The Great White North USA

TxsT
♀ 39996
Member # 39996

Posted: 9:47 AM, September 10th (Tuesday), 2013

Wonderful and very thoughtful and thought provoking post....I will continue to bump this today to make sure everyone reads it.

Me: BS 50
Hubby: WH 53
Together: 32 years
Married: 25 years 09/10/2013
2 boys: 23&21
Dday: 09/11/2012
A length: 4+ years (yes years)
status: Ongoing Reconciliation :o)

Through thick and thin we will survive but he gets only one shot at it!

Posts: 605 | Registered: Jul 2013 | From: CDN

LosferWords
♂ 30369
Member # 30369

Posted: 9:48 AM, September 10th (Tuesday), 2013

Thanks for putting this out here, NIK. Reaching out for help is one of the best things I ever did for myself.

Posts: 10655 | Registered: Dec 2010

Jrazz
♀ 31349
Member # 31349

Posted: 1:48 PM, September 10th (Tuesday), 2013

Great post, NIK.

"All the wars, all the hatred, all the ignorance in the world come out of being so invested in our opinions. And at bottom, those opinions are merely our efforts to escape the underlying uneasiness of being human. - Pema Chodron

Posts: 20953 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: California

tired girl
♀ 28053
Member # 28053

Posted: 3:22 PM, September 10th (Tuesday), 2013

Thank you for letting me know about this.

Me45 Him 45 Hardlessons DS 25,23,20
D Day 1/18/10 his 3/8/2012 mine
"No one can make you feel inferior without your consent." Eleanor Roosevelt

Posts: 5446 | Registered: Mar 2010 | From: az

crazyblindsided
♀ 35215
Member # 35215

Posted: 3:46 PM, September 10th (Tuesday), 2013

Thank you for posting this. I remember my attempt at suicide

such a scary place. It is wonderful there are programs and phone numbers for people in need of the help.

BS/FWS (me):40 Madhatter
WS/BS:42 Serial Cheater
Together 18 years, Married 13
DD(10) DS(7)
DDay(s) 5/08 OW1, 5/09 OW1, 3/30/12 OW2
Final Dday 7/11/14 Same OW2

Posts: 2350 | Registered: Apr 2012 | From: California

wifehad5
♂ 15162
Member # 15162

Posted: 4:10 PM, September 10th (Tuesday), 2013

Thank you for posting this.

FBH - 42
FWW - 43 (BrokenRoad)
2 kids 7&12

The people you do your life with shape the life you live

Posts: 39079 | Registered: Jun 2007 | From: Michigan

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