What is the 180 and how does it work?
It should take you directly to the 180 section.
Drowning is a really common sensation for those who have JFO. It does get better, but you need to take baby steps towards the light.
You're giving him all the power here. Why should he be the one to tell you to move on? You can try and help him be a better communicator, but at the end of the day he has to be in this with remorse and work or you are going to be waiting forever for something that's not going to materialize.
The 180 is an excellent place to start to get your power back. Sometimes it yanks a WS out of their fog... sometimes not. What it really does is teaches you not to rely on anyone but yourself for emotional stability.
[This message edited by Jrazz at 1:41 PM, September 10th (Tuesday)]