Me - BW
So, I've been "dating" this guy from Match. We get along great, he makes me laugh a LOT, he's very sweet, very considerate, very devoted to his son, and on good terms with his ex.
In the beginning he was concerned because he siad I probably wasn't "his type". He's a good foot taller than I am, and he's a big guy. (I'm 5'1" and petite, just for frame of reference).
I don't know what my type is, except I think in the past I used to be attracted to the "sparkly" kind, who would wow at first and then go icy once they knew I was into them. Yes, I'm sure of it.
This guy isn't sparkly. He's real and genuine. This is so weird for me, because about a week ago we were texting and he said he was concerened that we lived an hour apart and that if we got inviolved that would be a hinderance. And I cried, hard. SO NOT LIKE ME. I think about him a lot. We text a lot adn I willingly talk on the phone with him (which if you know me is HUGE).
So, what is going on in my head? Is this limerence??? Yikes. How do I get out of this and get my head back on straight??? ACK! I feel like a sappy 14 year old girl and I don't like it, dammit.
Very happily divorced from an NPD since 2013.