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tired girl posted 9/10/2013 15:16 PM

The mods and the guides spend a lot of their own time VOLUNTEERING here. It really bugs the shit out of me when one of them gets disrespected. Just saying. Thank you for the job all of you do. Wanted to let you guys know that without you and the time you volunteer, this site wouldn't be what it is.

Deeply Scared posted 9/10/2013 15:27 PM

Thanks TG

When I saw that today, I was super pissed that anyone would talk to a volunteer like that. We have her back

tired girl posted 9/10/2013 15:28 PM

I am thinking most of the people on this forum do DS.

Thank you for all you do.

Tred posted 9/10/2013 15:35 PM

DS, Meta, mods, and guides, I want to apologize for that. I responded first to Meta in that thread, and had no intentions of the tone going in that direction. But since this site is about consequences, and owning your shit, I own that. I say that because I considered for a minute if it was disrespectful, and convinced myself it wasn't. When I saw where the tone was going, I was embarrassed. I use this site for a lot of support, and at times it's when I'm not at my best. I just wanted to say I'm sorry. I really appreciate the job you all do - and I might harass WH5 (aka Badass according to WAL), but I should have realized the time/place wasn't right. My bad.

Deeply Scared posted 9/10/2013 15:40 PM

Tred...I can't speak for Meta...but I feel confident you were not the culprit

authenticnow posted 9/10/2013 15:44 PM

Thanks!

We work really hard to be fair and keep this site safe and supportive for everyone.

When one of the staff gets disrespected, the mama bear claws come out for all of us.

We all like to joke around. Who doesn't need comic relief? But, humor that is belittling and disrespectful is not tolerated, towards the members or the staff.

tired girl posted 9/10/2013 15:45 PM

But, humor that is belittling and disrespectful is not tolerated, towards the members or the staff.

Nor should it be.

DeadMumWalking posted 9/10/2013 15:59 PM

Not sure what this is all about, but just wanted to chime in with thanks for all you do as admins, mods and guides. You give so much to this site, I am so sorry for any negativity that you endure on our behalf.

((((admins, mods, guides))))

metamorphisis posted 9/10/2013 16:16 PM

Thank you guys. I'm sorry it became such a big deal.
Seriously, thank you, I appreciate it.

tired girl posted 9/10/2013 16:48 PM

Your welcome meta, you guys are the best

jo2love posted 9/10/2013 17:37 PM

Thank you. We appreciate the support.

Skan posted 9/10/2013 19:03 PM

Smoochies to you! Platonic one's, of course.

aesir posted 9/10/2013 21:33 PM

Just saw this thread, after catching up on the other one, was rather embarrassed by it all. Saw that there were already consequences in place by that time. Would have completely understood if the follow up response had ended with K'ThanxBye.

bear claws come out for all of us.

Mmmm bear claws.

Got enough to share? Now I'm hungry.

ETA:
On further reflection I feel I should point out that in no way am I trying to imply that any volunteers look like Pam, though I suspect a couple when provoked might be just as tough.

[This message edited by aesir at 9:42 PM, September 10th (Tuesday)]

Ascendant posted 9/10/2013 23:59 PM

Agreed. I wanted to PM the offending member, but he's not able to receive PMs. It was definitely a "Really, guy?" -type of moment.

aesir posted 9/11/2013 00:12 AM

I wanted to PM the offending member, but he's not able to receive PMs.

I may be wrong, but most often that is a result of consequences being applied.

tired girl posted 9/11/2013 00:39 AM

I do not believe you are wrong aesir.

Have to say that it stunned me to see a mod treated that way.

Hope2B posted 9/11/2013 01:14 AM

I missed what happened too, but wanted to say THANK YOU for helping me. If not for this forum, I think I would be in a very dark place.

confused615 posted 9/11/2013 05:25 AM

I saw it..it was offensive.

Meta..and all the mods here do a wonderful job and should be treated with nothing but respect.


Ascendant posted 9/11/2013 07:35 AM

I may be wrong, but most often that is a result of consequences being applied
Ah. OK.

Jrazz posted 9/11/2013 10:37 AM

Have to say that it stunned me to see a mod treated that way.

Let alone admin.

Let alone the amazing person she is.

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