I got HPV as well from his many affairs. Unlike you, I don't care to call so many women to tell them. I have my own problems and I have absolutely no anger or care or anything about them. They are not worth my time. They knew the risks, if they don't then they are idiots. If you look at my signature, you know what I think about idiots.
True love is harder to come by than soul mates. True love requires work.
Ignorance can be cured with knowledge. There is no cure for being an idiot.
D-Day, June 10, 2012
So, she let the call go to voicemail and I hung up. She called back and practically threw the phone at her mom when she realized it was me and she said, "It's TIKY, AGAIN."<<< I hadn't contacted her in over two years, at that time, so I'm thinking she was getting calls from another BS and I was taking the blame??? I don't know. Anyway, she was so curious as to what I was saying, I kept telling her mom it was fine to put me on speaker phone... She didn't because OW was having a hard time keeping herself together.
Anyway, her reaction was odd. She said IMMEDIATELY, "I don't have that." Instead of, "He exposed me to WHAT??". And she also claimed to have had all of the expanded HPV tests that they only do when you've been exposed- and been cleared. I just tried to express to her mom how important this all was because it CAN kill you. Her mom thanked me and that was the last contact I've had.
edited for typos (I always have to!)
Especially if WH knows about it, it's up to him to tell her, in my opinion-it's not your relationship or dealings with her, it's his.
But I can also understand your POV, too.
[This message edited by Ashland13 at 7:31 PM, September 10th (Tuesday)]
You gave me nothing and now it's all I've got - Bono
A person is a person, no matter how small. -Dr. Suess
Perserverance and spirit have done wonders in all ages.
She will sleep with another BS's husband again one day. An innocent BS will think she is in a monogamous relationship, and SHE may be the one that gets HPV and later cancer for trusting her husband
[This message edited by anewday78 at 7:52 PM, September 10th (Tuesday)]