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 niaveone (original poster member #40317) posted at 3:36 AM on Wednesday, September 11th, 2013

WS got called in to work. I'm sitting here, at night, playing on computer, with cell phone next to me; waiting for him to say he is done and coming home.

Do you know how many times this exact thing happened while he was out screwing that woman? Too many.

I think WS knows this. As every 30 minutes or so I'm getting a new, time stamped text of the computer work he is working on...so I know exactly where he is. I didn't even ask him for this.

Yup. Just sitting here crying, pissed that I'm in this position; and loving him for knowing it.

[This message edited by niaveone at 11:37 AM, September 11th (Wednesday)]

Me: BS
Him: WS
Married: 24 years
2 children
2 DDays
Reconciling

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jo2love ( member #31528) posted at 4:15 AM on Wednesday, September 11th, 2013

niaveone -

Please remember to follow the forum guidelines.

There is to be no venting about or name calling the OP in this forum.

Thank you.

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Deeply Scared ( Administrator #2) posted at 1:55 PM on Wednesday, September 11th, 2013

niaveone...

I think it's a really positive step he took to send you those texts. It's all a process, so take things slow and steady

"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." My Mom:)

My tolerance for stupid shit is getting less and less.

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 niaveone (original poster member #40317) posted at 5:37 PM on Wednesday, September 11th, 2013

Sorry. Edited.

Me: BS
Him: WS
Married: 24 years
2 children
2 DDays
Reconciling

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Undone1 ( member #37683) posted at 9:19 PM on Wednesday, September 11th, 2013

Evenings are very hard for me as well, or my fWH traveling. I normally try to plan ahead for times when I am going to be waiting for him to come home. We also facetime alot when he travels.

It is a great step that he gets time stamps so you know he is working!

R is a long hard process...there is a lot of pain and anger that this happened to us! Be kind to yourself!

Undone1
Married 10+ years to my high school sweetheart
DDAY 10/27/12
Me 55
WH 55
Blended Family: 25, 21, and 20
Married 10 years
"The Universe Unfolds as it Should"

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