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User Topic: Something for me to celebrate
avicarswife
♀ 35799
Member # 35799
Happy  Posted: 2:33 AM, September 11th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

A couple of years ago WH suddenly resigned from his job. This was shortly after I entered a masters program. Our initial plan had been for me to reduce my hours as an ICU charge nurse as I studied. Suddenly this wasn't able to happen.

I struggled through the first year studying, working full-time, a depressed unemployed spouse and then my darling SIL was diagnosed with metastatic melanoma. I wanted to give up my study but couldn't afford to pay back my scholarship that covered most of my fees.
When SIL died I thought perhaps life would cease with the curve balls. However then came a breast lump and shortly after came D-day.

At that point I could hardly function so I submitted a begging letter to the university to have a six month extension to finish my thesis.

Two months ago I finally submitted - just pleased to see the back of it and hoping it was enough to pass although a bit gutted it wasn't what I really had intended.

Today my supervisor rang to tell me thesis had been returned and I had passed. Not just passed but passed with first class honours!

I am so delighted - and I think WH is even more delighted.


On D-day:
BS 47 (me)
WH 51
M 26 yrs, 3 kids (16-24) at the time
D-Days 2012 23 - 24 May + TT
D-Day 2013 12 Apr OW#3
mOW #1 EA yrs PA Feb 2009-end 2011
mOW #2 EA months PA 4 months 2010
OW #3 PA once 2010
Status:??

Posts: 856 | Registered: Jun 2012 | From: NZ
authenticnow
♀ 16024
Member # 16024
Default  Posted: 5:44 AM, September 11th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Congratulations!


Suppressing your feelings only locks them in place.

Posts: 50088 | Registered: Sep 2007
wifehad5
♂ 15162
Member # 15162
Default  Posted: 6:54 AM, September 11th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Great news!


FBH - 44
FWW - 45 (BrokenRoad)
2 kids 8 & 14

The people you do your life with shape the life you live


Posts: 43044 | Registered: Jun 2007 | From: Michigan
nowiknow23
♀ 33226
Member # 33226
Default  Posted: 6:59 AM, September 11th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

How wonderful! Congratulations, avicarswife!!


You can call me NIK

This is it. The darkest day. The blackest hour. Chin up, shoulders back. Let's see what we're made of, you and I.
― The Doctor


Posts: 36402 | Registered: Aug 2011
jo2love
♀ 31528
Member # 31528
Default  Posted: 7:45 AM, September 11th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Congrats!!! That is awesome!

Posts: 45523 | Registered: Mar 2011
gahurts
♂ 33699
Member # 33699
Default  Posted: 10:43 AM, September 11th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Congratulations!!!


"Strength does not come from physical capacity. It comes from an indominable will" - Mahatma Gandi

"Courage is being scared to death and saddling up anyway." - Aubrie


Posts: 3954 | Registered: Oct 2011 | From: Georgia
sinsof thefather
♀ 29295
Member # 29295
Default  Posted: 1:31 PM, September 11th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Well done!


...second star to the right and straight on till morning.

Posts: 2220 | Registered: Aug 2010 | From: UK
sisoon
♂ 31240
Member # 31240
Default  Posted: 5:55 PM, September 11th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Congratulations!

Maybe 2 things to celebrate - getting it done and getting high marks....


fBH (me) - 70, fWW, Married 45+, together 45+, same sex ap
DDay - 12/22/2010
Recover'd and pretty much R'ed
I'm not an exemplar. I share my own experience because it's all I know.

Posts: 13667 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: Illinois
LosferWords
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Member # 30369
Default  Posted: 5:59 PM, September 11th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Awesome work. Congrats!

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