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User Topic: 9/11
authenticnow
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Default  Posted: 5:11 AM, September 11th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Sending a prayer out to all those who were affected by the events of this day (weren't we all?).

My thoughts are with the people who are still suffering on a daily basis. I can't imagine how hard this day is for them, and for those who lost a loved one.

LD was there that day, in the Financial Center, which was attached to the tower by a promenade. He has his own stories to tell of what he saw and experienced. We lost a couple of acquaintances, and people he used to see on the train, or played against in company softball teams, he never saw again. He still thinks about them and their families. One of the teachers at the kids' school lost her husband, he was a firefighter.

I am grateful that LD is still here with us. That I didn't lose my husband that day and that my kids still have their dad.

We will never forget.


Take up your space (and do it well).

"That's the thing about pain, it demands to be felt."


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MovingUpward
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Default  Posted: 5:44 AM, September 11th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Adding my prayers


AKA Moo

Think of the haters in your life as sandpaper; they’ll scratch you up time and time again but in the end you’re polished, smooth, and spotless..while they end up useless

We make a living by what we get, but we make a life by what we give.


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Deeply Scared
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Default  Posted: 6:28 AM, September 11th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm very grateful LD is with us too.

I remember him telling the story...my heart was breaking for all that he saw and heard on top of all the sadness surrounding that day already.

Prayers and healing thoughts to everyone that was effected


"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." My Mom:)

My tolerance for stupid shit is getting less and less.


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Laura28
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Default  Posted: 6:30 AM, September 11th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Prayers from Oz for all those who suffered that day and still suffer.

Laura


Married 32yrs Me BW 58Yrs Him FWH 60yrs
OWzero 1988 EA?/PA? Gaslighted.
Dday May 28 2010.
OW1 1994(6mths PA, EA 16+ years).
OW2 2002(8yrs PA).
OW3 2009(1Yr PA).
Others???? Status: Not Divorcing..but.."You can't unfuck the goat"

Posts: 2758 | Registered: Jul 2010 | From: Australia
jjct
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Default  Posted: 6:39 AM, September 11th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


Never forget.

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Sad in AZ
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Default  Posted: 6:49 AM, September 11th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm glad LD made it through also.

My cousin fled Tower 7 and walked miles to get home to his apartment on the upper east side. His wife walked home from the Bronx.

My hometown's mayor lost his son that day; he was working in Tower 2.

A good friend lost her husband, an NYPD officer, 2 years ago to a particularly heinous cancer that he developed as a first responder.

Yes; we will never forget.


I solemnly swear that I am up to no good.

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tushnurse
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Default  Posted: 7:25 AM, September 11th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Wishing peace and comfort to all of those directly impacted by such a tragedy.

Please know that America's people keep you in their heart and prayers.


Me: FBS
Him: FWS
Kids: 15 & 17
Married for 22 years now, was 16 at the time. .
D-Day Sept 26 2008
Fully R'd, and Happy Happy Happy

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jo2love
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Default  Posted: 7:47 AM, September 11th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((Everyone)))

Sending prayers to all those effected.


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Mack9512
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Default  Posted: 7:56 AM, September 11th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I lost 37 co-workers and friends, a cousin and my innocence that day. Wish I could get it all back.

Mack


"If you're brave enough to say goodbye, life will reward you with a new hello." - Paulo Coehlo

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metamorphisis
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Default  Posted: 7:58 AM, September 11th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm watching a memorial this morning and it is still..will always be, so heartbreaking. I don't think it would be possible to ever forget. Sending love to you and LD today AN. To your nation as a whole.
ETA) We were posting at the same time Mack. Oh Mack, I wish there was something I could do to bring comfort to you

[This message edited by SI Staff at 7:58 AM, September 11th (Wednesday)]



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sunandmoon
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Default  Posted: 9:25 AM, September 11th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Many prayers for those lost and those who lost a loved one.

I feel raw still. 12 years later. I am fighting tears now and have been since I dressed my kids in their red white and blue this morning.

We will never forget.

sunandmoon


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JKL Vikings
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Default  Posted: 9:29 AM, September 11th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Prayers going out to everyone today


Her- Alpha Female 40
Me-FWH 42
Married since '02, together since 2000
D-day 2/10/2009
3 sons- J- born Oct 2001
K- born Sept. 2005
L- born Apr. 2008
We ALL have issues. It's how we deal with them that makes the difference

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movingforward777
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Default  Posted: 9:44 AM, September 11th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

A friend of mine worked for American Airlines as a crew trainer/evaluator...the crews lost that day were people he knew, had worked with and lost....it shattered him...he never went back to flying and was a changed man....my heart breaks for him...
I often think of the people lost that horrible day and their families...life goes on, children grow up, families move, husband/wives remarry, but a part of their hearts died that day with their loved ones....
God Bless all of them and may He grant them peace and rest....


You can't reach for anything new if your hands are still full of yesterday's junk.......Louise Smith

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simplydevastated
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Default  Posted: 10:26 AM, September 11th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

My heart goes out to all those who were affected.

My aunt and uncle live on Staten Island. My aunt is a teacher and her school became a pick-up location for children waiting for their parents to return from the towers. I think she stayed over night at the school. My uncle worked in Jersey and he had to sleep in his office because he couldn't get home. They were lucky.

Two of my company contacts worked in Jersey as well and their office windows faced the towers. They saw everything first hand. It was bad enough watching it happen on TV while I was safe in CT, I can't imagine what it was like to see it first hand.

My mom knew someone whose daughter was supposed to go to work that day but she had gone to a picnic the Sunday before and came down with food poisoning and stayed home. Her office was in one of the towers.

[This message edited by simplydevastated at 10:28 AM, September 11th (Wednesday)]


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Two Wonderful children - DS10, DD7
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authenticnow
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Default  Posted: 1:39 PM, September 11th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I got chills reading all of these . So many stories...

DS and DD both texted LD today saying they were thinking of him and DS said, "I'm glad you're here, dad'. LD said, "I am too!"


Take up your space (and do it well).

"That's the thing about pain, it demands to be felt."


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jrc1963
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Default  Posted: 4:12 PM, September 11th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I have tears reading these stories.

My prayers and hugs go out to all effected.

(((LD)))
(((Mack)))


Me: BSO - 46
Him: FWSO - 69
DS - 13
D-Day - 12-11-09,
R - he finally came home
Your life is an Occasion. Rise to it. - Mr. Magorium, "Mr. Magorium's Wonder Emporium"

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LosferWords
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Default  Posted: 4:27 PM, September 11th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Hugs and prayers to all of those affected by this tragic day.

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LA44
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Default  Posted: 6:50 PM, September 11th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thoughts and prayers for our neighbours to the south on this day no one will ever forget.


Me: 44
He: 47 WH
Married: 15 years
D Day: December 2012
Affair: Fall 2009 - Dec. 2011
R is not linear

Posts: 2593 | Registered: Feb 2013 | From: Canada, eh
somanyyears
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Default  Posted: 7:21 PM, September 11th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


..

..peace on Earth....please God.

smy


trust no other human- love only your pets
She isn't and never was who I thought..I can't believe who I married and what she did to us.
Me 67
Her 63
Married 42 yrs (together 47)
18 yr LTA with bf


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unfound
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Default  Posted: 8:19 PM, September 11th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

never forget

So many lost.. so many. My heart holds all of them that are lost, still healing and still hurting.

The memorial that is done every year at Mr Unfounds station (he was just out of "newb" stage when 9/11 happened), is the most beautiful, moving ceremony I've ever attended, based in tradition, brotherhood and family.

All the trucks (one is apart from the rest, in honor of the fallen, and for emergencies) are brought out and the ladders are extended fully. At the top of the ladders, the flags are hung. On the sides of the trucks, are tacked the thousands of letters, quilts, pictures and correspondence from the public they received from our community and around the world.

All the guys are dressed so handsomely in their blues, and the normal boyish banter that usually fills the station is gone. Somberness

There's no pomp or circumstance. No wasted words. The names of every victim is read, then the reading of each of the 343 names of firefighters and paramedics. Each name is followed by dispatch sending the tones out, requesting response, then honorably relieving them of their duties, and sending them home.. then 3 slow rings of the bell. Amazing Grace is played, in the distance, on bagpipes as the firefighters guard the bell, heads hung in respect, as the attendees leave silently.



ka-mai
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From time to time, I do consider that I might be mad. Like any self-respecting lunatic, however, I am always quick to dismiss any doubts about my sanity. DK

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