I'm not going to trouble my husband with it - he's in pain with a herniated disk, MRI tomorrow and facing possible surgery. And this isn't his fault.
My coworker is recently divorced. She told me a story yesterday about something her husband did, and I ended up having a dream that was very very similar to what happened in her story.
In the dream, I found out that, while separated, my husband had a girlfriend and they took a trip to NYC. I found out via social media. At first he told me the girl's name was Ashley L--- and that she was the daughter of his parents' friends (their real friends, real last name). Then I realized that the first name was the same name as his text friend payroll girl and asked if it was really her, and he admitted it.
In the dream he was smug, cocky, mocked my pain, was unremorseful, defensive, etc. etc. Everything he was last year. It was pretty awful. I woke up at one point, went back to sleep, and was right back in the dream (that's so unfair when that happens).
So yeah. That made me wake up in a bad mood. But at least I know EXACTLY where that dream came from.