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User Topic: needed to vent
ideservebetter45
♀ 36951
Member # 36951
Default  Posted: 10:12 AM, September 11th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I think walk away spouses are selfish pieces of shit who disrupt their childrens lives and hurt people all for a new piece of ass!They make me sick! My dd should NOT have to spend time with him or his whore if she doesnt want to! This woman knew her and set out to destroy her family.Its bullshit.We dont want our kids around people who hurt them but the law says they have to go just because they are the sperm donor!! Fck these selfish people!

Posts: 163 | Registered: Sep 2012 | From: ideservebetter45
lost4now
♀ 21634
Member # 21634
Default  Posted: 10:14 AM, September 11th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

YOU ARE SOOOOOO RIGHT!!!!!

Vent away! It helps!!!


BS - ME 43
WH 44
Married 20 years
DDay #1 12/28/07
DDay #2 9/18/08
DDay #3 12/28/08
Dday #4 11/18/10 (same OW)
Dday #5 8/22/12 (same OW)
2 beautiful daughters
"Love grows where it is nurtured and dies where it is not!"

Posts: 841 | Registered: Nov 2008 | From: NJ
newlysingle
♀ 38735
Member # 38735
Default  Posted: 11:02 PM, September 11th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Amen to that, sister!


BW - Me (38)
XWH -The Gnat
OW - Hello Kitty the Whore Engaged to the Gnat. I hear the white trash, wedding bells as we speak.
M for 8 years, together for 10
1 DD (7), 1 DS (2)
Dday 3/13
Happily Divorced 9/20/13

Posts: 985 | Registered: Mar 2013
mixedintherut
♀ 40330
Member # 40330
Default  Posted: 11:17 PM, September 11th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Yes, yes and yes!

They don't even stop to think about how it will impact their child/children! Nine times out of ten they only see them on the weekends, and they get to play the "good guy". Or at least that's how it was in our previous situation.

Then again, I guess if they weren't so selfish, we wouldn't be in this position in the first place!


DD 1: PA 12/4/09 He spent 2.5 years with OW1
R: 8/31/2012
DD 2: EA 8/16/13
BS: 26
WH: 25
1 young daughter.
Terribly disgusted. He refuses to give up his "friend". Headed towards D.

Posts: 138 | Registered: Aug 2013 | From: kentucky
mof2
♀ 40287
Member # 40287
Default  Posted: 5:27 AM, September 12th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Vent away! What is even more sick is people who enable it! No need for accountability....just do what makes YOU happy! Screw everyone else!


BW - Me 43
WH - Cheating Swine 43
Dday - February 12, 2013....a week before I was to give birth to the child I miscarried and 12 days before our 5th anniversary.

Posts: 316 | Registered: Aug 2013 | From: DFW
ideservebetter45
♀ 36951
Member # 36951
Default  Posted: 5:58 AM, September 12th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Exactly. ..no accountability. . Just be happy. . Screw whoever doesnt like it including the children! Sick of no fault divorce bullshit.. sick of Disney dad bullshit. . Sick of sharing my sweet girl w a whore with absolutely no morals.As for the asshole ex.. what happened to his wedding vows? Til death do we part or until some other piece of ass comes along? ? He does nothing but get dd on Sundays (because she won't stay the night and i don't blame her) and takes her to dinner when he feels like it. Throws his support check around like i should be grateful and goes on his way. Ugh...I wish he would drop of the face of the earth.. selfish pos! Thanks for listening..

Posts: 163 | Registered: Sep 2012 | From: ideservebetter45
kg201
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Member # 40173
Default  Posted: 8:38 AM, September 12th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Speaking for the BHs, I don't understand how a mom could could choose to only be with her kids half the time so that she can continue her relationship with the AP. and then say that this is in the best interest of the children.

I told my WW that my 15 year old, who has always been a happy kid, is now constantly angry. He has been going to bed angry and waking up angry. Her response was that she has not seen this even though she has been looking for it. I guess in fantasy land everyone is happy with the glitter farting unicorns.


Me: BH, 39
Her: WW, 40
Together 18 years, married 15+
LTA 3.5 years, ongoing
Dday: 7/28/13
Divorcing, 3 children
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"There can be no friendship without confidence, and no confidence without integrity." -S

Posts: 803 | Registered: Aug 2013
sleepless34
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Default  Posted: 11:39 AM, September 12th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I hear you. I am in the same boat. It is discusting and shocking.

I like to say it out loud because I can still barely believe it, it is so crazy. I like to say it to him in DIvorce Therapy, but it doesn't seem to sink in.

"MY HUSBAND OF 15 YEARS, WHO I LOVED AND WAS MY BEST FRIEND AND FATHER OF TWO BEAUTIFUL KIDS, LEFT ME FOR A WOMAN HE MET IN A SEX CHAT ROOM AND THEN FEEL IN LOVE WITH AND HE JUST COULDN'T LIVE A LIE ANYMORE"

Now, I am not usually so Jerry Springer worthy. We had it all really. Really nice life, great kids, great home, in good financial shape, great neighborhood, friends, family. Everyone thought we were a great couple and a happy couple.

And now I have to send my two beautiful, happy kids off to his little apartment to sleep in their "other bedroom" and he says he won't introduce her to the OW, but I trust nothing this douche says....

And the law sucks here too. I can not control what he does with the kids, where he goes, who they meet, what they do, NOTHING. and I have been trying to protect them from all of this, because they don't deserve this.

And it is all because he is a selfish coward that couldn't communicate he was unhappy, too lazy to put effort into the marriage and then is so weak that he is willing to blow up this beautiful life for some skank that strokes his tiny EGO and tiny other parts???? Seriously? WHO. F**KING DOES THAT????


Me BW- 40ish, awesome
Cheating scusband 40ish
2 kids, elementary school age
Bomb dropped Aug 4 out of nowhere...

Posts: 446 | Registered: Aug 2013 | From: Hell
sparkysable
♀ 3703
Member # 3703
Default  Posted: 12:31 PM, September 12th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

There is nothing in this world that I hate more than the thought of XWH and the OW playing happy family with my beautiful daughter. It's the worst.

What I hate about this situation is that we have no control over what lowlifes they bring our children around.


D-day OW#1 2/2004; R for 6 years; D-day OW#2 5/2010

Marriages that start this way, stepping over the bodies of loved ones as the giddy couple walks down the aisle, are not likely to last.


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