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User Topic: Ashley Madison
movingbackwards
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Angry  Posted: 10:18 AM, September 11th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Anyone else just totally have it out for the scumbags who facilitate affairs via this website? (I'm sure there are others as well)

I know that a WS is going to find a way to be a WS regardless, and no one forced my WH or anyone else to join this site. It just disgusts me that people are making money off of broken marriages.

My vent for the day.


You can crawl back home, say you were wrong
Stand out in the yard and cry all night long
Go ahead and water the lawn
My give a damn's busted!

Posts: 85 | Registered: Sep 2013
RyeBread
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Default  Posted: 10:20 AM, September 11th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Agree 110%


Let him that would move the world first move himself. - Socrates

Posts: 1030 | Registered: Nov 2012 | From: Midwest
TrulySad
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Default  Posted: 10:27 AM, September 11th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I just looked at the description. Wow! What scum!!! How is this something a person would search out? I am so saddened by the lack of morals and integrity these days.


Me: Sad, but I will survive

True Love: What I have for my beautiful children.


Posts: 492 | Registered: Jun 2013
simplydevastated
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Default  Posted: 10:29 AM, September 11th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

It just disgusts me that people are making money off of broken marriages.

^^^This

I am so saddened by the lack of morals and integrity these days.

^^^And this.


Me - BS, 39 (I'm not old...I'm vintage)
Two Wonderful children - DS10, DD7
Married, for now... (4+ D-Day - listed in profile.)

Posts: 5854 | Registered: Jul 2009 | From: In the darkest depths of hell!
Tred
♂ 34086
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Default  Posted: 10:30 AM, September 11th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Yep. I hated that site - I won't even say what I thought about people who would use it. Then I found out my wife was one of the people that made them #1.


Married: 17 years (14 @JFO)
D-Day: 11/09/11
"Ohhhhh...shut up Tred!" - NOT the official SI motto (DS)

Posts: 4128 | Registered: Dec 2011
demos
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Default  Posted: 10:34 AM, September 11th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I blame Gore. He invented this internet thing.

Posts: 185 | Registered: May 2012
Tred
♂ 34086
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Default  Posted: 10:37 AM, September 11th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

t/j - There was cheating before the internet. Without the internet though, SI wouldn't exist.


Married: 17 years (14 @JFO)
D-Day: 11/09/11
"Ohhhhh...shut up Tred!" - NOT the official SI motto (DS)

Posts: 4128 | Registered: Dec 2011
Lovedyoumore
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Default  Posted: 10:39 AM, September 11th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I hated the billboards. Just trash.


Me 52
WH 52
Married 30+ years
Together trying to R

I tell people I am tired but really my heart is broken and I am sad.


Posts: 1611 | Registered: May 2012 | From: Southern, bless your heart
LifeisCrazy
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Default  Posted: 10:39 AM, September 11th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm going to make a comment here that no one is going to like. Please recognize that I'm just playing Devil's Advocate and that I, in no way, advocate sites like these.

So, that being said...

You're unhappy in your marriage. Or your spouse cheated on you and you're looking for a little "action" on the side. Or whatever reason you come up with to justify stepping outside your marriage.

Where are you going to go? To a bar? Hope that someone at work gets your across-the-room stare?

No. Someone in this boat wants to find someone who wants the same as them. And... most importantly, wants someone with as much to lose as they do. People on AM, I would assume, have incentive to keep the secret. If you think about it, AM is the perfect synchronization for like-minded individuals.

Hence, a site for cheaters.

We ask ourselves how people can fail to see that affairs are due to the person's own brokenness. But that has to be recognized first - and far too often it either gets recognized too late or never gets recognized at all. People looking for an affair don't see problems in themselves - if they did we wouldn't see such high numbers of adultery.

Ashley Madison fills a need.

Unfortunately,


"Pain is temporary. Quitting is forever."

Posts: 159 | Registered: Jan 2013
notquiteoverit
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Default  Posted: 10:43 AM, September 11th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I agree with LifeisCrazy. There are many websites out there that are offensive, not just Ashley Madison. They are out to make money in our capitalitic society and see a niche to be filled. Blame the people who use Ashley Madison. The responsibility is 100% theirs.


Me - BS 50
Him - WS 49
SOW - 52 destitute loser
D-day 1/28/11

Posts: 588 | Registered: Jul 2011
PinkJeepLady
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Default  Posted: 10:46 AM, September 11th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Totally disgusting that it even exists and sad that more people don't speak up publicly about how destructive infidelity is to ALL parties involved.
What happened to integrity and honor?
Your post is making me want to start a protest march right now. I guess it would be an online protest, blog of some sort. What ever happened to old fashioned sit ins? Man I am getting old! If anyone wants to start an anti-cheating movement, count me and my pink jeep in!


Me: BW-54. Him-FWH 54. DDay June 1st 2012 cheating with prostitutes overseas
R-ing
"Not everything that counts is counted. Not everything that is counted counts." Albert Einstein

Posts: 504 | Registered: Nov 2012 | From: Out West
movingbackwards
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Default  Posted: 10:52 AM, September 11th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Lifeiscrazy, notquiteoverit - I know, I mentioned that of course the blame is on the people who use it. It just makes me wonder what kind of a person can be okay with making money off of such a twisted premise.

The full force of my anger is definitely on WH and the other people who use this website. But there's enough anger to go around, so the people who run AM get a little bit as well


You can crawl back home, say you were wrong
Stand out in the yard and cry all night long
Go ahead and water the lawn
My give a damn's busted!

Posts: 85 | Registered: Sep 2013
Tred
♂ 34086
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Default  Posted: 10:55 AM, September 11th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Quote from Noel Biderman, who is the founder of AM:

In an interview with the "A Current Affair" program in Australia, he admitted that if he found out that his own wife was accessing his cheater's site, that "I would be devastated."

The guy is a hypocrite. If he was willing to let his wife go and have her jollies with random men on the internet then I wouldn't say that - but he understands he facilitates devastation.


Married: 17 years (14 @JFO)
D-Day: 11/09/11
"Ohhhhh...shut up Tred!" - NOT the official SI motto (DS)

Posts: 4128 | Registered: Dec 2011
Ostrich80
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Default  Posted: 11:03 AM, September 11th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I agree MB...We all know the ws is responsible for their actions and people have always found a way to cheat before internet, cell phones, beepers and so forth. You have a legitimate vent. Technology just makes it easier for the cheater and harder for us to catch them. I know my ws would have had an extremely difficult time cheating if it weren't for his cell phone...started A with texting. It's just disgusting that some POS had the idea of a site like AM.

[This message edited by Ostrich80 at 11:04 AM, September 11th (Wednesday)]


BS..me
WS..him
Been with him over half my life
4kid
DD1 10-01-09 DD2 02-12-12 discovered it never ended
OW..nothing special. Just your average skank
Status..#$%@????

Posts: 5276 | Registered: Feb 2012 | From: midwest
SoOver96
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Default  Posted: 11:57 AM, September 11th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Wth there are millions and millions of single females and males why can't they just leave the married ones alone and to make a website to make it okay that's $&@$ up

Posts: 171 | Registered: Aug 2013 | From: Illinois
wifehad5
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Red  Posted: 1:04 PM, September 11th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

PM for you demos.


FBH - 42
FWW - 43 (BrokenRoad)
2 kids 7&12

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SisterMilkshake
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Default  Posted: 1:16 PM, September 11th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Of course it is the fault of the people who use AM, no one forces them to.

I feel the point of the post is, though, what kind of POS human being makes millions and millions of dollars off of other peoples misery? How can they sleep at night? He knows many get "busted" using AM, how can he feel no one is getting hurt? Many broken marriages, broken families, but he is fine as long as he gets his money, the greedy mofo. Sure, people are going to cheat, so why not make money off of it?

he admitted that if he found out that his own wife was accessing his cheater's site, that "I would be devastated."
Whether or not Mrs. Biderman uses AM to cheat or not I couldn't care less about. I just want her to cheat. If she used AM, well, that would be just icing on the cake, poetic justice. Mrs. Biderman deserves to be cheated on, too, as she profits from the evilness also. I know I couldn't be married to someone who was making money in this way.

[This message edited by SisterMilkshake at 1:16 PM, September 11th (Wednesday)]


BW (me) 50ish FWH 50ish
Married 34 years, 3 children
d-day 3/10 LTA (4 yrs./fucking & flirting)

"Oh, why do my actions have consequences?" ~ Homer Simpson
"She knew my one weakness: That I'm weak!" ~ Homer Simpson


Posts: 10083 | Registered: Nov 2010 | From: The Great White North USA
Deeply Scared
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Default  Posted: 1:18 PM, September 11th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I feel the point of the post is, though, what kind of POS human being makes millions and millions of dollars off of other peoples misery?

I don't get it either. Be a scumbag and get rewarded. Try to do the right thing and go broke


"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." My Mom:)

My tolerance for stupid shit is getting less and less.


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Jrazz
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Default  Posted: 1:20 PM, September 11th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I don't get it either. Be a scumbag and get rewarded. Try to do the right thing and go broke

(((DS & MH)))

Thank you for going broke for us.


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Posts: 18676 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: California
Dark Inertia
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Default  Posted: 1:21 PM, September 11th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

what kind of POS human being makes millions and millions of dollars off of other peoples misery

A capitalist.

It is a shame, and I hate the site, but it is genius in its simplicity; the same way as the Girls Gone Wild DVDs that made another douchebag a millionaire many times over.

The owner recognized a demand that has been around since the beginning of the institution of marriage, exploited it, and is now reaping his rewards.

[This message edited by Dark Inertia at 1:23 PM, September 11th (Wednesday)]


"If I listened earlier, I wouldn't be here. But that's just the trouble with me. I give myself very good advice, but I very seldom follow it."

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