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Reconciliation :
2nd antiversary just went by

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 tearsofblood1 (original poster member #34392) posted at 5:50 PM on Wednesday, September 11th, 2013

and for the most part is was an alright day. only at the end of the night was there any type of conversation regrading my a.

back in the end of july and early august, my wife had been more angry than usual, with more questions and confrontations than in a long time, since she had previously communicated to me she was done trying.(see previous posts, rather than go ythrough the whole story).

she began to back away from her thought process of seeing other people to see what else is out there. finally in mid august she texted me that she finally realized that we both hurt each other, and its been hard, but no one will ever love her as much as i love her.

since then things have been good. slowly she has begun to let me back in, been more willing to hug and kiss me. a huge step. our vacation with the kids was filled with laughs and good times. no tension. and even as the days leading up to the antiversary and the day of came around things were generally ok.

i beleived in my heart, no matter what she said or did, that if i continued to show her i had changed and showed her i would do anything for her, that she would eventually come back.

by no means do i think we are 100 pct out of the woods, but it does feel good to know she is beginning to work on things with me again, and that she has seen a genuine change in me.

now the real work begins.

We're not broken just bent, and we can learn to love again

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Simple ( member #18814) posted at 7:57 PM on Wednesday, September 11th, 2013

Here's hugs your way...

We're here for you.

Love is a choice.

True love is harder to come by than soul mates. True love requires work.

Ignorance can be cured with knowledge. There is no cure for being an idiot.

-October 3, 2007
-February 18, 2022

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LosferWords ( member #30369) posted at 10:14 PM on Wednesday, September 11th, 2013

Sounds like you are growing closer together. This is great progress, and I'm glad you are seeing some rewards. Keep working at it.

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 tearsofblood1 (original poster member #34392) posted at 11:18 PM on Wednesday, September 11th, 2013

thank you. I am grateful for how things have been. and hopefully things keep moving forward.

We're not broken just bent, and we can learn to love again

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