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User Topic: I just realized...
simplydevastated
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Default  Posted: 12:30 PM, September 11th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I graduated from high school 20 yrs ago! 20 YEARS! It didn't help that my daughter said to me the other day "Mom, you have a lot of gray hair."


Me - BS, 39 (I'm not old...I'm vintage)
Two Wonderful children - DS10, DD7
Married, for now... (4+ D-Day - listed in profile.)

Posts: 5854 | Registered: Jul 2009 | From: In the darkest depths of hell!
RyeBread
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Default  Posted: 1:52 PM, September 11th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I got contacted a couple months ago from the student class president of my graduating class. She was calling to make sure she had my correct contact info for our 20yr reunion next summer. I opened a few beers after that phone call.


Let him that would move the world first move himself. - Socrates

Posts: 1030 | Registered: Nov 2012 | From: Midwest
jrc1963
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Default  Posted: 4:33 PM, September 11th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Ha... such light weights!

I graduated from college 21 years ago!


Me: BSO - 46
Him: FWSO - 69
DS - 13
D-Day - 12-11-09,
R - he finally came home
Your life is an Occasion. Rise to it. - Mr. Magorium, "Mr. Magorium's Wonder Emporium"

Posts: 24750 | Registered: Dec 2009 | From: Florida
nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 4:36 PM, September 11th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

*sigh* I'll be in my rocker over in the corner.


You can call me NIK

"Keep your face always toward the sunshine - and shadows will fall behind you."
-Walt Whitman


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TrulyReconciled
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Default  Posted: 4:49 PM, September 11th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I graduated from high school 40 years ago.

No gray hair yet


"In a time of deceit, telling the Truth is a revolutionary act."

Posts: 21572 | Registered: Dec 2003 | From: Hell and back, way back :o)
authenticnow
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Default  Posted: 5:21 PM, September 11th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Ohgod. 31 years for me. Thanks, SD, because today isn't depressing enough .


Take up your space (and do it well).

"That's the thing about pain, it demands to be felt."


Posts: 38992 | Registered: Sep 2007
sisoon
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Default  Posted: 5:49 PM, September 11th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Well, I missed my HS 50th last October.

If there's a 20th reunion, I recommend going. I went to mine with real trepidation - it turned out we all were a little nervous. The thing was, we all thought we had been jerks in HS, so we were afraid to face our old classmates, but we all turned out very nice.
**************************

Our DIL has more grey hair than my W does. Now, if only I could get W to let her hair grow to length it was 40 years ago....


fBH (me) - 70 (22 in my head), fWW (plainsong) - 65+, Married 45+, together since 1965
DDay - 12/22/2010
Recover'd and R'ed
I share my own experience because it's the only experience I know, not because I'm a good model.

Posts: 10763 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: Chicago area
Sad in AZ
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Default  Posted: 6:35 PM, September 11th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

41 years for me. I went to the 20th and 40th reunions. At the 20th the guys all looked better than the women. At the 40th the women all looked better than the guys.


Hallelujah! Holy shit! Where's the tylenol?

Posts: 20561 | Registered: Jun 2009 | From: Upstate NY
MissesJai
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Default  Posted: 6:47 PM, September 11th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

22 years here! DAMN!


FWW - 41
"Don't think first about the risks of speaking up. Think first about the risks of not speaking up." ~ Kerry Patterson

Posts: 6042 | Registered: Jul 2009 | From: So Cal.....
simplydevastated
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Default  Posted: 9:23 AM, September 12th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Sorry AN

I'm glad I'm not alone in this realization. Where did the time go?

I would love it if my school had a reunion but we didn't even have one at 10 or 15, so I doubt one will happen at 20.


Me - BS, 39 (I'm not old...I'm vintage)
Two Wonderful children - DS10, DD7
Married, for now... (4+ D-Day - listed in profile.)

Posts: 5854 | Registered: Jul 2009 | From: In the darkest depths of hell!
lynnm1947
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Default  Posted: 1:14 PM, September 12th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Oy, I know!!! Almost 50 years for me. Tempus fugit.


Age: 64..ummmmmmm, no...............65....no...oh, hell born in 1947. You figure it out!

"I could have missed the pain, but I would have had to miss the dance." Garth Brooks


Posts: 7519 | Registered: Jul 2007 | From: Toronto, Canada
rachelc
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Default  Posted: 1:31 PM, September 12th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

simply - you're a baby!! My 30 year is next summer!
I won the award for the most kids during my 10 year. gulp.


his Dday: 2/10 but TT until 7/11
my Ddays: 1/12, 4/12 broken NC 12/12

me (WW/BS): 48
him: (BS/WH)52
4 kiddos in mid 20's

“Follow your intuition. Be smart, be brave. Tell the truth and don’t take any shit.”


Posts: 5778 | Registered: Dec 2010 | From: Midwest
still2suspicious
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Default  Posted: 2:08 PM, September 12th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

My 40th is in a few weeks!!

Gray hair?? Not me, just had it done yesterday!


Me: BS
Him: WH
DDay: LTEA

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cantlivewithouth
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Default  Posted: 2:09 PM, September 12th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

When I went to my 20th last year, we had a classmate that was a grandmother like 5 times over.

I believe she was pregnant our senior year, but I can't remember. I still am in shock about that.


Married a truly wonderful and loving man Sept. 19, 2010. Not only survived, but thrived.

My new mantra: Argue Your Limitations.‎


Posts: 40985 | Registered: Sep 2006 | From: Canada by way of Virginia
pmal64
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Default  Posted: 2:12 PM, September 12th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

30 years here. it seems unreal!
and someone from the bunch came up with a 50th birthday party for us this coming year instead of waiting the usual 5 or 10 years til we get together again!

geez. when I was in HS, I thought 30 was OLD

[This message edited by pmal64 at 2:13 PM, September 12th (Thursday)]


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Posts: 582 | Registered: Feb 2007 | From: down south
Clarrissa
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Default  Posted: 7:58 PM, September 12th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Just passed 31 since HS graduation. My HS doesn't have the "milestone" reunions. They have them every year, open to any class regardless. We've had people who showed up 50, 60 even 75 years after graduation.

I haven't attended a reunion in about 3 years or so and have no plans to do so in the foreseeable future. Nothing there for me any more and my classmates never show up anyway... at least when I'm there.

As for grey hair, yup, got some and can't blame it on the grandkids either. Started going grey before GS1 was even a thought.


BH Cee64D - 48
WW (me) - 49


All affairs are variations on a theme. No one has 'Beethoven's 5th' to everyone else's 'Chopsticks'.


Posts: 5896 | Registered: Dec 2008 | From: A better place
metamorphisis
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Default  Posted: 9:00 PM, September 12th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Yikes Can't. I think if my school had them I'd be coming up on my 20th soon? Maybe last year. I can't remember

5 grandkids by now? I'm 39 for heavens sake. Just NO.

[This message edited by SI Staff at 9:01 PM, September 12th (Thursday)]



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