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hangingontohope7 posted 9/11/2013 18:32 PM

I can't help but laugh. He actually brought her to my house to drop the kids off. Part of me thinks its pathetic.

I'm not going to let them break me. I walked out of the house with my head held high and looked her straight in the face.

Sorry OW, I'm not the monster that you've made me out to be. I'm just like any other woman, wife and mother. So, I hope you got a good look. I didn't act a fool or say anything nasty to you, even though I sure as hell could have said plenty. I have integrity... something you lack.

gypsybird87 posted 9/11/2013 18:55 PM

Good job! I haven't come face to face with OW yet. Can't say I'm looking forward to it, but one thing I know for sure: no matter what she thinks of me, it will never be close to the disgust, loathing, and PITY that I feel for her.

homewrecked2011 posted 9/11/2013 18:57 PM

My atty said if she does this, I can file a notice of no trespass on her, which means she has to sit in the road on her broom.

[This message edited by homewrecked2011 at 6:57 PM, September 11th (Wednesday)]

Blackhair posted 9/11/2013 19:52 PM

Proud of you! Good job. I am actually so worried/stressed out and do not know what to say when that day happens to me, now I will simply do what you did!

suckstobeme posted 9/11/2013 20:15 PM

It is pathetic. Talk about trying to piss on their territory like the dogs they are.

Mine did this once. I didn't know it though until the kids came in. At first, I felt the blood start to boil. After a minute though, I thought, "take a good look around, whore. Take a look and see what he left for half the life he has with you. Soak it in and realize what you will never have.". Stupid bitch.

tryingagain74 posted 9/11/2013 20:26 PM

XWH brought his over too when dropping our kids off at my place after the big family vacation. I really can't get mad anymore because the Owife looks so pathetic and dependent, and she always looks like she's dressed for an 80s-themed party. I always think of her as a little mousie to my big, bad wolf. Sometimes, it actually helps to see how truly lacking they are; the reality of the APs is usually so much funnier, weirder, or sadder than the fantasies we build in our heads about them.

But yes, let your ex "flaunt" his "prize," and then have yourself a good laugh.

Bluebird26 posted 9/12/2013 03:29 AM

My xwh used to bring the OW to every pick up. It's like she didn't trust him or something

Now they are married she doesn't come nearly as often. She must trust him more now they are married

Keep holding your head up high that is all you can do.

hoya96 posted 9/12/2013 19:14 PM

My ex sends OW to pick up the kids (they're now married). She comes to parent teacher conferences, all athletic events, volunteers at their school (which is also my place of employment), etc.

I have been told that she is their parent also and will be as involved as him in their lives.

S'fun. I just keep my boundaries up, and never acknowledge her existence. I still have a hard time wrapping my brain around the fact that they see nothing wrong with this (in fact, I am lectured on a regular basis about refusing to respond to her e-mails, or coparent with her), but I try to remember that someone who could have an affair with his wife's best friend/her best friend's husband is disordered to begin with.

Good for you for taking the high road. Remember that no matter how they act, you are the one with class and integrity.

tesla posted 9/12/2013 19:52 PM

Stripper whore is the one present 90% of the time when I pick Teslet up. Over the summer, she always came on the drive with ex-shat to get Teslet.

The last time I went to pick Teslet up, she invited me into the house because she was having trouble getting Teslet out the door.
I politely declined that invitation and told Teslet he had the count of three to get himself to the door. There stood stripper whore, mouth agape as she watched Teslet high-tail it to the door. She followed us outside as I made him sit down and put his sandals on. I think she was mentally trying to take notes on how to parent.