Me: BS (32)
I am moving this weekend! So excited!! I found a nice, affordable place that has everything I want (including a dishwasher!). As you can see by all the exclamation marks, I am excited to start this new chapter of my life.
WH is sad today. This is not actually new. Ever since his weird I-hate-our-life-but-love-me-anyway talk, and my subsequent "I'm moving out" talk, he's been sad. He has only now realized that he probably cannot afford to stay in this rental (military housing) and pay child support. He came to my doorway and was, well to be honest it looked like he was trying (and failing) to cry, and said three times: "I don't know how I'm going to do it". As though it's my job to help him figure it out. You should've thought about that before you chose to fuck that slut you work with dude. Not. My. Problem.
He keeps asking about my budget, but unless I have to show him, he's getting crickets on that score. Most of my expenses are kid/daycare related, there isn't much more to play with. Child support would give the boys and I some comfort. Not extravagance, but comfort. I get the feeling he wants to say: "well, you can afford it all, so I don't need to pay". I know it doesn't work like that in real life, but he thinks what he wants. My lawyer appointment can't come soon enough (they were booked til almost the end of the month). 4 days til I'm out of this house/ he's out of my hair.
Eta: he gave me a hug today. I can't remember why the hug, but then he kissed me. I know he would've gone for sex had I not started crying. He said: "I guess I shouldn't do that eh?". My response was: "we're separating". So frickin weird. I guess he's just trying to see what all he can get from me (emotionally, physically, financially).
[This message edited by PurpleBirch at 8:15 PM, September 11th (Wednesday)]
Him: WH (31)
Married 3 years.
Confessed to PA April 21 2013.
DS (6), DS (18 months)
Aug 30 2013 He gives me back his ring with an ultimatum: "Get over it or get out".
Status: Done like dinner