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Nature_Girl posted 9/11/2013 20:40 PM

So close. It's so close. Final judgment, third draft, this may be the one. I dunno. Lawyer & I are looking it over.

The end is in sight.

Of course then I'll probably have to scramble and work on an appeal if he appeals (which we think he will). Still. I'm just savoring this moment. Close, no cigar yet, but close.

Phoenix1 posted 9/11/2013 20:44 PM

Yay!!

tesla posted 9/11/2013 21:48 PM

I'm going to get my NG celebration beer chilling in the fridge! Just say the word when I can pop a few of those open and toast to you!!!

Nature_Girl posted 9/11/2013 21:51 PM

This sucker is 92 pages long (including all the worksheets for ss/cs calculations). Seriously?

Nature_Girl posted 9/11/2013 21:52 PM

I know it's too soon, but this picture is so cute!

tesla posted 9/11/2013 22:00 PM

92 fucking pages? Maybe I'll get one of those beers out now.

Compartmented posted 9/11/2013 22:04 PM

Nature_Girl, I am so hopeful that you can get some peace in your life soon!! An appeal sounds awful, but maybe you'll be in a better place while that goes on? As in you'll have a bit more financial support?

It's quite an ordeal you've gone through!!!

Nature_Girl posted 9/11/2013 22:20 PM

92 fucking pages? Maybe I'll get one of those beers out now

I know, right??? Maybe this should be part of a game show, or a riff by Jeff Foxworthy. "You know you're divorcing a NPD if your divorce decree is 92-fucking pages long!" <cue audience laughter>

nowiknow23 posted 9/11/2013 22:44 PM

Fingers crossed, NG.

Kajem posted 9/11/2013 22:44 PM

My decree is 8 pages.

The CS modification paperwork a year later= a complete file drawer.

I hope this is the end for you, and you can finally get this behind you and relax a bit. If he runs true to NPD handbook-it won't be over. But at least you will have something enforceable.

Hugs,
K

Pass posted 9/11/2013 22:54 PM

You deserve some relief, NG. I hope this is the one.

homewrecked2011 posted 9/12/2013 06:05 AM

Here's some hope for you:

Once the D was final, I had about 6 months of crap from him,bad mouthing me, etc then, I guess he moved on and we rarely have any run ins with him. He doesn't get the kids as often as he should, doesn't go to their events, doesn't feed them, and yesterday the OW wrote out the child support check. He gets crickets from me-I know they want at least a comment so I don't give it to them- and I act really happy when I run into him/OW.

Hope yours goes this way, too. I never thought he would blow off the kids because he was so into them at the beginning, acting like the best Dad to kids AND bad mouthing me at the same time. but everyone told me it would happen like this....

[This message edited by homewrecked2011 at 6:06 AM, September 12th (Thursday)]