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Topic: Oh-em-gee, so close I can almost taste it!
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Nature_Girl
♀ 32554
Member # 32554 |  Posted: 8:40 PM, September 11th (Wednesday), 2013 |     |
So close. It's so close. Final judgment, third draft, this may be the one. I dunno. Lawyer & I are looking it over.
The end is in sight. 
Of course then I'll probably have to scramble and work on an appeal if he appeals (which we think he will). Still. I'm just savoring this moment. Close, no cigar yet, but close.
Me = BS
Him = EX-d out (abusive troglodyte NPD SA)
3 tween-aged kids
Together 20 years
D-Day: Memorial Weekend 2011
2013 - DIVORCED!
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wJgjyDFfJuU
Posts: 10722 | Registered: Jun 2011 | From: USA |
Phoenix1
♀ 38928
Member # 38928 |  Posted: 8:44 PM, September 11th (Wednesday), 2013 | |
Yay!! 
BS - Me
Xhole - Multiple LTAs/2 OCs over 20+yrs
Kids - 2 adult DDs - DS20 Deceased
Happily divorced!
~Indifference - Because some people do not deserve your emotions.~
I edit often because my tablet is possessed!
Posts: 4440 | Registered: Apr 2013 | From: Land of Indifference |
tesla
♀ 34697
Member # 34697 | | Posted: 9:48 PM, September 11th (Wednesday), 2013 | |
I'm going to get my NG celebration beer chilling in the fridge! Just say the word when I can pop a few of those open and toast to you!!!
"Thou art the son and heir of a mongrel bitch." --King Lear
Posts: 4962 | Registered: Jan 2012 |
Nature_Girl
♀ 32554
Member # 32554 | | Posted: 9:51 PM, September 11th (Wednesday), 2013 | |
This sucker is 92 pages long (including all the worksheets for ss/cs calculations). Seriously?
Me = BS
Him = EX-d out (abusive troglodyte NPD SA)
3 tween-aged kids
Together 20 years
D-Day: Memorial Weekend 2011
2013 - DIVORCED!
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wJgjyDFfJuU
Posts: 10722 | Registered: Jun 2011 | From: USA |
Nature_Girl
♀ 32554
Member # 32554 | | Posted: 9:52 PM, September 11th (Wednesday), 2013 | |
I know it's too soon, but this picture is so cute!
Me = BS
Him = EX-d out (abusive troglodyte NPD SA)
3 tween-aged kids
Together 20 years
D-Day: Memorial Weekend 2011
2013 - DIVORCED!
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wJgjyDFfJuU
Posts: 10722 | Registered: Jun 2011 | From: USA |
tesla
♀ 34697
Member # 34697 | | Posted: 10:00 PM, September 11th (Wednesday), 2013 | |
92 fucking pages? Maybe I'll get one of those beers out now.
"Thou art the son and heir of a mongrel bitch." --King Lear
Posts: 4962 | Registered: Jan 2012 |
Compartmented
29410
Member # 29410 | | Posted: 10:04 PM, September 11th (Wednesday), 2013 | |
Nature_Girl, I am so hopeful that you can get some peace in your life soon!! An appeal sounds awful, but maybe you'll be in a better place while that goes on? As in you'll have a bit more financial support?
It's quite an ordeal you've gone through!!!
Posts: 1617 | Registered: Aug 2010 |
Nature_Girl
♀ 32554
Member # 32554 | | Posted: 10:20 PM, September 11th (Wednesday), 2013 | |
92 fucking pages? Maybe I'll get one of those beers out now
I know, right??? Maybe this should be part of a game show, or a riff by Jeff Foxworthy. "You know you're divorcing a NPD if your divorce decree is 92-fucking pages long!" <cue audience laughter>
Me = BS
Him = EX-d out (abusive troglodyte NPD SA)
3 tween-aged kids
Together 20 years
D-Day: Memorial Weekend 2011
2013 - DIVORCED!
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wJgjyDFfJuU
Posts: 10722 | Registered: Jun 2011 | From: USA |
nowiknow23
♀ 33226
Member # 33226 | | Posted: 10:44 PM, September 11th (Wednesday), 2013 | |
Fingers crossed, NG.
You can call me NIK
And never grow a wishbone, daughter, where your backbone ought to be.
― Sarah McMane
Posts: 40123 | Registered: Aug 2011 |
Kajem
♀ 36134
Member # 36134 | | Posted: 10:44 PM, September 11th (Wednesday), 2013 | |
My decree is 8 pages.
The CS modification paperwork a year later= a complete file drawer.
I hope this is the end for you, and you can finally get this behind you and relax a bit. If he runs true to NPD handbook-it won't be over. But at least you will have something enforceable.
Hugs,
K
I trust you is a better compliment than I love you, because you may not trust the person you love, but you can always love the person you trust. - Unknown
Relationships are like sharing a book, it doesn't work if you're not on the same page.
Posts: 6708 | Registered: Jul 2012 | From: Florida |
Pass
♂ 38122
Member # 38122 | | Posted: 10:54 PM, September 11th (Wednesday), 2013 | |
You deserve some relief, NG. I hope this is the one.
Me: 47
Two sons: Born 2000 and 2003
Cheating louse: What's her name again?
Married Aug/95
DDay Nov/12
Separated Mar/13
Finally divorced Jul/17
The best thing about hitting rock bottom is that everything after that looks fucking fabulous!
Posts: 3407 | Registered: Jan 2013 | From: Ontario, Canada |
homewrecked2011
♀ 34678
Member # 34678 | | Posted: 6:05 AM, September 12th (Thursday), 2013 | |
Here's some hope for you:
Once the D was final, I had about 6 months of crap from him,bad mouthing me, etc then, I guess he moved on and we rarely have any run ins with him. He doesn't get the kids as often as he should, doesn't go to their events, doesn't feed them, and yesterday the OW wrote out the child support check. He gets crickets from me-I know they want at least a comment so I don't give it to them- and I act really happy when I run into him/OW.
Hope yours goes this way, too. I never thought he would blow off the kids because he was so into them at the beginning, acting like the best Dad to kids AND bad mouthing me at the same time. but everyone told me it would happen like this.... [This message edited by homewrecked2011 at 6:06 AM, September 12th (Thursday)]
Sometimes He calms the storm. Sometimes He lets the storm rage, but calms His child.
Dday 12/19/11
I gave a 24hour ultimatum then went to attorney next day. Shocked the hell out of him, with D papers, I'm proud to say!
D final10/30/2012
Me-55
Posts: 3986 | Registered: Jan 2012 |
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