The end is in sight.
Of course then I'll probably have to scramble and work on an appeal if he appeals (which we think he will). Still. I'm just savoring this moment. Close, no cigar yet, but close.
This above all: to thine own self be true, and it must follow, as the night the day, thou canst not then be false to any man ~ Shakespeare, Hamlet
It's quite an ordeal you've gone through!!!
92 fucking pages? Maybe I'll get one of those beers out now
I know, right??? Maybe this should be part of a game show, or a riff by Jeff Foxworthy. "You know you're divorcing a NPD if your divorce decree is 92-fucking pages long!" <cue audience laughter>
“The most difficult times for many of us are the ones we give ourselves.” ― Pema Chödrön
The CS modification paperwork a year later= a complete file drawer.
I hope this is the end for you, and you can finally get this behind you and relax a bit. If he runs true to NPD handbook-it won't be over. But at least you will have something enforceable.
Hugs, K
The best thing about hitting rock bottom is that everything after that looks fucking fabulous
Once the D was final, I had about 6 months of crap from him,bad mouthing me, etc then, I guess he moved on and we rarely have any run ins with him. He doesn't get the kids as often as he should, doesn't go to their events, doesn't feed them, and yesterday the OW wrote out the child support check. He gets crickets from me-I know they want at least a comment so I don't give it to them- and I act really happy when I run into him/OW.
Hope yours goes this way, too. I never thought he would blow off the kids because he was so into them at the beginning, acting like the best Dad to kids AND bad mouthing me at the same time. but everyone told me it would happen like this....
[This message edited by homewrecked2011 at 6:06 AM, September 12th (Thursday)]
me BS 52 him - 46 married 15 years DIVORCED 10 31 12 children - ds15 ds12 d-day 12-19-11 I gave a 24hour ultimatum then went to attorney next day Divorce filed
