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Nature_Girl (original poster member #32554) posted at 2:40 AM on Thursday, September 12th, 2013
So close. It's so close. Final judgment, third draft, this may be the one. I dunno. Lawyer & I are looking it over.
The end is in sight. 
Of course then I'll probably have to scramble and work on an appeal if he appeals (which we think he will). Still. I'm just savoring this moment. Close, no cigar yet, but close.
Me = BS
Him = EX-d out (abusive troglodyte NPD SA)
3 tween-aged kids
Together 20 years
D-Day: Memorial Weekend 2011
2013 - DIVORCED!
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wJgjyDFfJuU
Phoenix1 ( member #38928) posted at 2:44 AM on Thursday, September 12th, 2013
Yay!! 
fBS - Me
Xhole - Multiple LTAs/2 OCs over 20+yrs
Adult Kids
Happily divorced!
You can't go back and change the beginning, but you can start where you are and change the ending. ~C.S. Lewis~
tesla ( member #34697) posted at 3:48 AM on Thursday, September 12th, 2013
I'm going to get my NG celebration beer chilling in the fridge! Just say the word when I can pop a few of those open and toast to you!!!
"Thou art the son and heir of a mongrel bitch." --King Lear
Nature_Girl (original poster member #32554) posted at 3:51 AM on Thursday, September 12th, 2013
This sucker is 92 pages long (including all the worksheets for ss/cs calculations). Seriously?
Me = BS
Him = EX-d out (abusive troglodyte NPD SA)
3 tween-aged kids
Together 20 years
D-Day: Memorial Weekend 2011
2013 - DIVORCED!
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wJgjyDFfJuU
Nature_Girl (original poster member #32554) posted at 3:52 AM on Thursday, September 12th, 2013
I know it's too soon, but this picture is so cute!
Me = BS
Him = EX-d out (abusive troglodyte NPD SA)
3 tween-aged kids
Together 20 years
D-Day: Memorial Weekend 2011
2013 - DIVORCED!
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wJgjyDFfJuU
tesla ( member #34697) posted at 4:00 AM on Thursday, September 12th, 2013
92 fucking pages? Maybe I'll get one of those beers out now.
"Thou art the son and heir of a mongrel bitch." --King Lear
Compartmented ( member #29410) posted at 4:04 AM on Thursday, September 12th, 2013
Nature_Girl, I am so hopeful that you can get some peace in your life soon!! An appeal sounds awful, but maybe you'll be in a better place while that goes on? As in you'll have a bit more financial support?
It's quite an ordeal you've gone through!!!
Nature_Girl (original poster member #32554) posted at 4:20 AM on Thursday, September 12th, 2013
92 fucking pages? Maybe I'll get one of those beers out now
I know, right??? Maybe this should be part of a game show, or a riff by Jeff Foxworthy. "You know you're divorcing a NPD if your divorce decree is 92-fucking pages long!" <cue audience laughter>
Me = BS
Him = EX-d out (abusive troglodyte NPD SA)
3 tween-aged kids
Together 20 years
D-Day: Memorial Weekend 2011
2013 - DIVORCED!
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wJgjyDFfJuU
nowiknow23 ( member #33226) posted at 4:44 AM on Thursday, September 12th, 2013
Fingers crossed, NG.
You can call me NIK
And never grow a wishbone, daughter, where your backbone ought to be.
― Sarah McMane
Kajem ( member #36134) posted at 4:44 AM on Thursday, September 12th, 2013
My decree is 8 pages.
The CS modification paperwork a year later= a complete file drawer.
I hope this is the end for you, and you can finally get this behind you and relax a bit. If he runs true to NPD handbook-it won't be over. But at least you will have something enforceable.
Hugs,
K
I trust you is a better compliment than I love you, because you may not trust the person you love, but you can always love the person you trust. - UnknownRelationships are like sharing a book, it doesn't work if you're not on the same page.
Pass ( member #38122) posted at 4:54 AM on Thursday, September 12th, 2013
You deserve some relief, NG. I hope this is the one.
Divorced the cheater and living my best life now.
The best thing about hitting rock bottom is that everything after that looks fucking fabulous.
homewrecked2011 ( member #34678) posted at 12:05 PM on Thursday, September 12th, 2013
Here's some hope for you:
Once the D was final, I had about 6 months of crap from him,bad mouthing me, etc then, I guess he moved on and we rarely have any run ins with him. He doesn't get the kids as often as he should, doesn't go to their events, doesn't feed them, and yesterday the OW wrote out the child support check. He gets crickets from me-I know they want at least a comment so I don't give it to them- and I act really happy when I run into him/OW.
Hope yours goes this way, too. I never thought he would blow off the kids because he was so into them at the beginning, acting like the best Dad to kids AND bad mouthing me at the same time. but everyone told me it would happen like this....
[This message edited by homewrecked2011 at 6:06 AM, September 12th (Thursday)]
Sometimes He calms the storm. Sometimes He lets the storm rage, but calms His child. Dday 12/19/11I went to an attorney and had him served. Shocked the hell out of him, with D papers, I'm proud to say!D final10/30/2012Me-55
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