So are you keeping secrets, or just working through some really difficult shit?
If you aren't keeping any secrets, I think you should have that safe place to go to, in order to work through whatever it is you are working through. At the same time, perhaps you can assure your wife that you aren't holding back secrets, but just working through some really difficult and painful issues.
Do you think these issues that you are working through are something that you will eventually be able to share with your wife?
[This message edited by LosferWords at 6:23 PM, September 15th (Sunday)]